They gave my baby his first bath, first bottle, first nail clip, first everything without me being there in the NICU 😕 I was so upset about it and still am 3 weeks postpartum
2026-01-31 12:25:48
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beachbabe.805 :
This was a hospital right??? Not a birthing center?
2026-01-30 23:42:49
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chaos.queen.abby :
They let my SIL do it and I was so mad
2026-01-30 02:45:06
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✟Fiona_Too.tuff :
for the people saying it's not that serious TRUST ME it is that serious.
2026-01-30 19:12:42
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rosiegirl378 :
As a NICU nurse…i get its scary to have parents do the first feed but I will always sit with them and watch so that mom or dad can have that moment with their baby. If I need to take baby or assist, i’m right there to jump in.
2026-01-31 11:04:19
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Dallas Skinner | SAHM :
Same thing happened to me but it was his diaper.
2026-01-30 00:15:57
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Chrissyyxoxo :
I am a NICU nurse and we set mom up with a comfy chair and set her with her baby with a bottle. ofc I am making sure the baby is doing okay but other than that go crazy feeding! Let me know how baby does and if you have any concerns :)
2026-01-30 20:09:52
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Alicia 🤍 :
Oh my gosh! NICU nurse of 5 years. Parents first for EVERYTHING if able. All of which include diaper and bottle
2026-03-17 16:48:46
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Robyn :
They do it for a reason, to make sure they are taking the milk properly(asked my friend who is a midwife why)
2026-03-27 12:13:06
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elenasilence603 :
same thing happened to me but I couldn't walk or anything for 2 hours she had to get a eco done after she was born
2026-01-30 00:39:42
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Shasha :
As a NICU mom I understand you sooo much 🙁 in my hospital we made a friend groupe of mama to keep an eye on each-other baby while one of us was gone cause the care wasn’t it…..we were sooo angry, I can’t imagine your frustration and sadness that she’s stole that from you
2026-02-01 05:54:47
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neil🐞 :
my baby was born 2days ago and had to be in the nicu his first night i literally was just thankful he was getting cared for, i understand frustration with the firsts but id rather be safe than sorry always…
2026-05-23 06:58:43
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tiarra :
She’s not even doing sideline feeding 😭
2026-01-31 16:21:15
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‘Talie 🦕🪐💫 :
I can’t imagine a single instance of a nurse NEEDING to do a regular feed. It’s one thing if they’re setting up a feeding tube for the first time, but just a bottle???
2026-01-30 16:40:01
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Mbr1992 :
I’m a NICU nurse.. I always let parents do the first feed. I educate on side lying paced and stand close by
2026-01-31 14:51:49
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. :
Absolutely not id be furious
2026-01-31 00:44:12
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Ally P. Q. :
I will never forget coming in one morning finding out they had given my baby his first bottle. I felt I should just be grateful for his accomplishment, but couldn’t help feeling so sad I wasn’t the one to do it and wasn’t there for it.
2026-04-03 23:48:11
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Kayla :
My NICU experience was terrible. There were a few good nurses but overall I wish I said more. They probably thought I said enough 😂
2026-01-30 23:12:33
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nayeliwantsaman :
Hey so I’m a Nicu mom and that’s your baby I’ve only told one nurse I got it and it’s fine to leave me with my son ONCE
2026-01-31 19:10:32
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taylor :
I would’ve lost my mind
2026-01-30 21:53:19
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⁺。・𝘦𝘤𝘭𝘪𝘱𝘴𝘦⁺.ᢉ𐭩 :
18 years old never had a kid so i can’t possibly understand the feeling buy im here for moral support 😭🙏
2026-02-01 04:40:50
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🌹 Amber 🌹 :
Yea as a NICU nurse I would never 😅 anytime there is a first for a baby I will wait for mom/dad to be able to make it to do that first milestone. Promoting bonding between parents and baby is such an important part of the job. The only time I will ever do a first is after I’ve asked parents a few times and they say they don’t mind. So sorry this was your experience! 💕
2026-03-27 00:55:58
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Mommaof2👨👩👧👦 :
having a nicu baby is something I wouldnt wish my worst enemy🥺 I truly lived on auto pilot the entire time I can barely remember anything
2026-02-03 19:38:56
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