@anxiouslyalej: How do you know if a man is with you out of convenience or because he genuinely loves you? If you’ve noticed that he showed up differently for other women more effort, more consistency, more intention this video explains why. Most women don’t struggle because they’re asking for too much. They struggle because they’re dating men who see them as a tolerance, not a preference. Men don’t fall in love through potential the way women do. And when a man is with a woman he truly wants, you don’t have to negotiate effort, consistency, or basic consideration. Watch actions. Not words. And stop bending your standards early. That’s how you save years of your life. #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #datingadvice #avoidantattachment

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lili_ceran
Lilipad :
yall have nipple hair?
2026-02-05 16:37:19
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la_d3monia
𝕷𝖆 𝕯𝖊𝖒𝖔𝖓𝖎𝖆 :
By my what?
2026-02-02 18:33:07
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simpleevalentina
ᴠᴇᴇ🌞 :
It did indeed hurt, not the advice, the holding😭
2026-01-30 01:47:46
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loviethecreative
The Lovie LoveBug💎 🇧🇿 :
He did soooooo much pursuing to get me and switched up when I fully committed.
2026-01-30 08:54:36
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lokotrips_
lokotrips :
I’m older and have been proposed to 8 times. Please listen when I tell you, there will be no doubt in your mind if a man really likes you; they’re annoyingly obvious. If you’re wondering if he likes you, he doesn’t so don’t waste your time. Actions speak louder than words!
2026-01-30 06:42:21
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adriane.t6
Adriane T :
Or THIRD he’s broke now . That happens
2026-01-30 05:38:52
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gabriella_ella04
Gabriella_Èlla :
me checking if i have nipple hair(s)😭
2026-01-30 08:51:30
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mr.sanchez_1988
Love.Live.Laugh. :
personal opinion... My loneliness haa brought me more peace than relashinships.. my peace is my priority....
2026-01-30 16:49:32
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jessicafriedalynn
Jessica Frieda-lynn :
how do we know hes not lying about past relationships?
2026-01-30 00:18:17
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mergirlsareeasy777
MerGirlsAreEasy777 :
Also, all those nice things he told you he did for past women could be a lie. My ex told me several things he did for an ex that sounded so sweet, but he never did these things for me. When I brought it up in an argument years later, he said, "What are you talking about? I never did any of that." I later found out from the woman herself that they had never even dated.
2026-01-30 07:44:32
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maxbrunet075
Max |Overall Oaf| AuDHD 🇨🇦💄 :
Oof. Dating potential is my red flag hahahah
2026-01-30 00:05:12
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mizurilala
boringassshit :
i dun have..
2026-02-07 13:08:47
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_thatafricangirl__
Lazy✨ :
By my whatttt?
2026-02-05 01:44:25
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kyrieelesionlord
Kyrie Elesion :
Complacency is compliance. 🚩
2026-01-30 04:09:40
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christine.elizabeth
The Finance Baddie® :
Observe his actions always 🔥
2026-01-31 17:22:00
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pancakeswoman
Wannagetsomepancakes :
By my what
2026-03-16 00:57:25
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kaitx30
kat :
wait ouch
2026-02-01 13:42:36
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dianaflores6534
dianaflores6534 :
Not the hairs 😂
2026-01-30 02:49:48
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lagueramayrisofficial
La Mayris❤️‍🔥💋 :
So true! If they are not afraid to lose you, they wont do anything for you simply because they dont care if you stay or leave.
2026-01-31 22:17:51
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merciamgobo
Mercia Mgobo :
you talking to me sister
2026-02-03 01:45:15
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winnerxwinner
winnerxwinner :
match aura for aura, he gives little, give nothing back lol
2026-02-02 10:54:15
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2hope_seamoss
2Hope :
he initiates the dates, pays for them, treats me so good when we together. we do trips but mostly it's for 🍑. he never offered his help when I'm going through the most. he hits me with 'youll be fine, youv got this, who did it for you before I got here' he does call everyday, and messages first thing in the morning. I however feel that he does things in convenience.
2026-02-01 16:21:32
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malakareibi
malakareibi :
Awwwch girl it’s hurt 😭
2026-02-01 22:05:51
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junemadhu28
June :
hear me out...when we were dating he was perfect boyfriend...after we got married one year was normal and he changed now he is doing absolutely bare minimum..what do I do ?
2026-01-30 18:12:30
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rasulo1717
rasulo1717 :
This is happening to me now. Wow, you are correct.
2026-01-30 00:13:15
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