@livjowen: We decided to try something a little different and see what would happen 🤍 I challenged the kids to see if they could get through their entire evening routine and checklist while I stayed silent and relaxed in my room. No reminders. No hovering. Just independence, routines, and a little trust. @Skylight Frame made this possible, and honestly? I might make this a regular thing. #skylightpartner #momlife #momlifeunfiltered #parenting #parentingtips
For people saying the oldest is acting as mom, that's probably her chore is to give the smallest the guidance and help with baths. It's not like she's running the whole day, no need to be dramatic and make mamma feel like she's doing something wrong! Obviously they don't do this often. Plus when does the eldest not like to be in charge? lol
2026-01-30 05:34:10
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Libby Boone :
Yeah. As the eldest daughter I dislike this. All that did was make the older daughter responsible for YOUR children. I was put in this position as a child. It isn’t fair & it does affect us into adulthood. Parentification is not ok.
2026-02-05 18:42:13
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🤍 :
your oldest is literally a mini you
2026-01-30 00:45:07
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Michelle DeVore :
What does Ava have to be in charge?
2026-02-05 00:49:07
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JK🏴🏴 :
why are there so many cuts in the video what are you hiding?????
2026-02-26 23:44:18
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🇬🇧Lois_Ren 🇬🇧 :
The eldest children look so fed up !!! So much responsibility
2026-01-30 18:27:38
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8Catmac8 :
Having your oldest give the youngest a bath is not a sibling chore. That’s a mom chore…. Coming from the oldest of 4
2026-02-05 07:10:34
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Channie :
Why is everyone so mad. The kids look so happy.
2026-01-30 22:14:40
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😈Winter bear ❄️ 🐻 :
Bro, the comments are not passing the vibe check. She’s taking one night off what is wrong with y’all
2026-02-05 05:04:19
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Janey Creates :
Oh wow the comments. This is wonderful. All these kids are doing is learning life skills. None of the kids looked like they hated it. No tears tantrums. Believe me I’m sure it’s not always this smooth.
2026-01-30 19:13:59
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Kathie :
Poor older daughters. Honestly completely unfair to them.
2026-02-11 18:53:12
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user8505791712146 :
This is called parentifying! Look it up!!!! So sad for the older siblings
2026-02-11 21:29:26
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sydneybland5 :
this is the dream omg you are such a good mom
2026-02-25 19:30:19
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panlily2 :
I bet they feel so proud of themselves when they get to do these things! You’re such a good mom no matter what these people on here are saying. Your kids look well behaved and very happy and healthy.❤️
2026-01-30 04:55:11
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KayBay 🍉 :
You older children are not babyitters.
2026-02-07 23:11:49
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annie2shoes :
What a brilliant way to teach the kids life skills.
2026-01-31 09:40:11
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Ashlee :
I smiled the whole video. There’s nothing wrong with having the older ones help with the little ones. It creates a loving bond between them 🥰
2026-01-30 20:07:24
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Ashlee Ann :
They’re all so proud!!!! Love this! River is getting so big!
2026-01-30 01:34:19
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TheOutnumberedMom :
It says “trying something different “ this is clearly not an everyday/all day thing for the eldest. God people have so many judgments on one video. Anyone else just enjoy it and thought it was cute? Please try having 8 kids yourself! Kuddos to this momma needed that break I’m sure!
2026-02-06 20:44:53
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xoxo.ky :
Y’all do realize this was a challenge and not their daily routine right..?? Having older siblings help occasionally isn’t the end of the world 😭
2026-02-16 10:59:08
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Coco :
may this obedience and structure find me and my children when they're old enough to understand
2026-01-30 06:13:35
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Char Berger :
Do they get any kind of allowance or any rewards?
2026-01-30 00:32:51
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