the siblings end up hating each other for life it is so sad
2026-01-30 16:28:09
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whatever :
and this is why I am no contact with my sister and mother. they should be happier now..The "problem" is gone.
2026-02-28 12:48:43
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NapsMom :
My mother was so good at it that we each believed the other one was the “golden child.” It’s wild. I raised my kids by concentrating on the possibility & good things they did. It wasn’t that hard. My mother made it seem like raising kids was an impossible chore.
2026-02-17 01:43:47
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Jenna | Child Advocate :
I’ve read that the scapegoat and golden child can change from time to time too… what are your thoughts?
2026-02-23 19:34:46
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Mywayofbeing :
Yes, and extended family. They only know what was told. No one asked my side. Even as an adult. She triangulated always. She couldn't be friendly with more than one child at a time. Always had one target.
2026-02-19 05:56:47
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Carm :
I'm the scapegoat and my younger brother is the golden child and even tho our mother tries to come between us we still love each other.
2026-02-20 05:04:41
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Mary :
My brother and I had two different mothers growing up even though the same woman birthed us both
2026-02-16 15:10:28
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🌟Rae-Gun :
I was an adopted only child. I didn't have sibling rivalry. But she compared me to friends or other relatives. I was never good enough
2026-01-30 04:01:49
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Michelle White :
can someone send this to my brother
2026-02-15 04:26:53
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Kate :
omg this is my mom!!!
2026-01-30 22:19:36
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logeybearandpercyboy :
Haven’t spoken to my sis in decades 😔
2026-02-16 17:04:07
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Magnets by Morgan :
bpd mom and i am no contact w my mom or brother. he is the golden child.
2026-02-20 03:56:16
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Nicki :
They taught them how to treat us .
2026-02-13 08:49:46
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Vicky :
Everything you just said That's so true in my family and I was the scape goat
2026-02-19 06:10:35
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randomthoughtsofmiddleage :
this is definitely my Mom with my sister
2026-02-15 20:19:16
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melisslcy9f :
Wow my life spot on.
2026-02-17 06:59:22
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ALCAMP iOL :
It’s hard to unteach
2026-02-27 22:43:29
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Michelle White :
I'm the scapegoat
2026-02-15 04:25:05
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nofruitcup1 :
I was the scapegoat. My sisters still blame me even though our parents are gone.
2026-02-15 22:16:21
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Michelle DeRosa :
I’m the scapegoat
2026-03-16 02:37:11
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SweetCalee :
What about the 3rd child???
2026-02-17 04:33:31
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Tammi Goulden Bullers :
This is spot on!!!
2026-02-28 12:00:58
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Anna :
She favored one child and controlled me
2026-03-11 23:59:11
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TherealMrsHowey :
Scapegoat here, EVERYTHING you said was spot on!!!
2026-01-30 12:07:19
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Wendy Ruggs 1973 :
14 of us 😳😳😳, it was crazy
2026-01-30 03:39:38
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