@travellingnurse_: I get that I am making generalised statements but this is for the sake of argument. Of course not all black Caribbean men date outside of their race. I am speaking to the ones that date outside, what are some of the reasons? #debate #carribean #carribbeantiktok #relateable

knowledge 🔋 :

Unfortunately , they don't want us when we are trying to climb , they want us at the top of the mountain , not to build pr to get on the mountain together , and then you want the entire mountain for yourself. Hello

🇯🇲🇬🇧 :

This topic really hits a nerve for me and I wish it was talked about more. I grew up in a mostly white area of Surrey and there were no Black girls at my school or in my social circles. So naturally, I mostly dated white women and I’m now happily married to a white woman, which I always expected based on my environment. But when I see how many Black men exclusively choose white women, it does make me cringe and feel a bit sad, even though I know it can be real love. We call it “preference”, but a lot of that is shaped by society, status, and sometimes fetishism. I’m not confused about my own situation. I honestly believe I could’ve made more effort to connect with Black women, and that’s on me. But what I don’t understand is Black men who grow up around Black women and still completely rule them out. And I also think men like me need to be more honest and own that we should’ve tried harder, and challenged the cultural stereotypes that unconsciously shaped our choices.

newbeginning :

the jacket rate is 80 percent need I say more

user5476138233380 :

This isn’t true. We are here

JetMagic :

I’m on the way to stop this madness

Draeson :

They are our preference. But there is a saying, “don’t chase after those who don’t want you. Instead accept the ones who do”.

Steven :

Can we just appreciate how she was able to ask this without throwing shade or belittling anyone 🙌 love the maturity

pauldonaldson52 :

In many Caribbean families and communities, children are raised to show strong respect to elders and to women, often calling women “Auntie,” whether they’re related or not. That builds a mindset where women in your community are seen almost as family or protected figures, not people you think of romantically. So when you grow up with that conditioning, it can feel strange or even uncomfortable later trying to see women from the same background in a romantic or sexual way. Some men then find it easier to date outside that group because they don’t have that same mental association of family/respect. It doesn’t mean you don’t respect Black women — in fact, it often comes from respect being strongly taught. It’s more about how early upbringing shapes attraction and comfort. As people get older, many start separating those ideas: you can respect women deeply and still see them as potential partners.As older man now if I was to split up with my wife I would find a black girl friend

patmcintosh21 :

The system have an agenda to split the black family from wayyyyy back and it's working. I cannot believe we have fallen for it, we have such backward mentality. shame on us, we are the only race thinking like this...smh

Tiro Edo :

very polite n decent lady

#mandem :

The answer is right her on this app. Watch the videos of these caribbean women. They raised these men you seek to put down. It starts from seeing the mothers lifestyle.

Vondell Phillips :

we like peace ✌️😌 🙌🏽 not war

14Damian Mcknight :

hi my queen 👑 I'm a Jamaican man and I do love my black queen I love my amazing woman 🥰🥰

skanbe88 :

I'm happily married to a Nigerian woman.

Michael Foster7478 :

no all my love, am hear 🇯🇲

ellistonstonemusic :

Your a beautiful black Queen.

GENTLEKING🤴🏿 :

yardiestylez :

Mumma yu pretty 🥰

Patrick Bryan :

🥰blessed love 🥰

heart of love fully :

do u believe in love but hi do on gets alot of hurts many times because hi always shows people real love on hi have learn from them trust no one

Dempsey :

Because we are broke

life_youte35 :

I love my black woman 💯💯💯💯💯

virtuoso :

I'm a jamaican and I love my black women.

rodneychandler92 :

we try but they have other races of women that come first without so much drama