At first I thought it was love , but I realized I was the only one doing the "loving" he was benefiting from me , it took me 3 yrs to finally understand there was no connection, no real intimacy, no sharing moments , no soulful exchanges, what I felt was all me ,I was the one providing all the good things in this relationship.
I left.
2026-01-31 00:53:48
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Johanna Tervola :
My ex husband 😱 we broke up 2 weeks ago. this separation is traumatic for me 😪💔
2026-02-05 19:11:19
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Tim the Waterboy :
You explained it as i was living it without having the answers to what I was experiencing. And Poof in 2 weeks she moved another in... Crazy what you see with them. Thank God I'm out of that and down the road from it.
2026-09-08 12:27:46
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BronzeMama :
coach Ken, of all the narcissism educators on this platform, you are able to articulate the experience of being a victim of narcissistic abuse better than anyone else. You have changed my life. I don't think I would've filed for divorce without the clarity you've helped provide. Keep educating us!
2026-02-01 00:14:23
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itsnotmeitssomeoneelse0 :
Going on 9 days no contact!
2026-03-04 16:39:23
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sheilsm1 :
You explained this all so incredibly perfectly! I’m 3 years out & it took me most of 3 years to heal, accept the reality & the part I played in , this explanation is just so spot on. Thank you for all of your amazing content, it was incredibly helpful during my long, hard healing journey. It takes so long to heal from these types of destructive relationships, but we can do it! 🙏💕
2026-02-04 19:06:53
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do421 :
You could not have described what happened any better.
2026-01-31 00:10:12
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Cindy :
I gave and gave and gave. I never received love. I made myself feel like it was ok but deep down I knew I deserved more
2026-02-03 20:17:22
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Jenn :
Oh my goodness you are spot on. This is my marriage.
2026-02-07 05:55:32
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Maria sancez :
Exact super super explanation💯💯👑👍
2026-02-10 10:38:35
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nkwabi :
My marriage is exactly like that where I am now I'm still in shock 🥰
2026-02-17 16:25:34
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Dana is 🆒 :
I am so physically and mentally exhausted
2026-02-01 18:55:58
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DELUX AUTO PARTS :
thanks
2026-02-10 12:15:29
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Ninadelaney333 :
After I ended it with my long time Narc BF, I didn’t know who I was. At age 27 I started from ground zero. It was so odd. I had a better sense of myself before the relationship with the Narc, than I did afterwards
2026-03-01 00:58:49
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Cath77 :
Sir, thank you for all your videos. you are so helpful. have you ever heard of professor Sam Vaknin and his video of the true and false self on narcissism.? please watch this on Google and please tell what your thoughts are on this. he is supposed to be the leading expert on narcissistic behavior. he gives an example of what is actually going on in the mind of a narcissist. I wish you could teach on this subject of the true self vs the false self. I appreciate all your helpful videos.
2026-01-31 15:38:00
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Shawn :
This is so spot on exactly what happens so validating and clarifying
2026-01-31 13:07:11
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na167094963410s :
You are right 💯
2026-02-25 07:48:31
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𝕜𝕒𝕣𝕒✨ :
Thank god I found out he had a wife after a month and half of dating him… but he cracked my brain… I broke up with him and was tempted to smooth things over and then I found out he was married a few days later… my god! I’m thankful I didn’t get stuck with him for any longer… I don’t know how I would have survived
2026-02-15 19:09:32
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Ms Sonja 💜 :
I also thought all the 7 vd calls daily was love. He was actually simply checking up on my moves. His trust issues was a problem. He will question the me in me. Questions my routine of 6 years of been in a safety forum. I'm glad it lasted only 3 months before I got in too deep
2026-02-18 05:32:58
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Sakuraoti :
True 💔
2026-02-17 13:29:21
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Sheila-Guapa :
Now he left me. Alone in another country. Little money and no hope.
2026-02-15 14:46:55
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lis :
😥😥😥
2026-02-03 10:56:06
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12345 :
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
2026-03-21 00:29:45
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narcclips :
❤️
2026-02-16 21:25:11
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