@spicycokezero: Please feel free to share which one you are and if it’s accurate :) I will also try to answer any questions I can (but pls remember I am a student!!) #fyp#psychology#relationships#attachmentstyle#relatable

natalia! :

i think in my more daily life/behaviors i present like an anxious-avoidant, but i’m in my first romantic relationship and ive been presenting like an anxious attachment in that relationship

Sarah Anne :

is it possible to have anxious bc of my mom and avoidant bc of my dad

Sam_IAM3 :

Can a person have all of these?

🌱 :

I’m a fearful avoidant

Vic :

Can you be multiple at once?

Rye:33 :

Is it possible to be disorganized but not withdrawal? I just get really clingy. But I know my upbringing was bad to say the least (my mom was fine, not perfect, she wasn’t really there emotionally and I was always scared she’d leave but she was the best I had. Especially in comparison to my father.) but I also know in relationships I don’t really push people away like that. I put their needs before my own on occasion and panic and think they’re gonna leave me forever, and such, but I never really tell ppl especially my partner abt that. Idk 🥹🥹

TomsTickleBerries :

I fear I’m a mix of the first three. How do I fix it? I’m currently in a relationship (which I recognise that I shouldn’t because I am no where near mentally well enough to sustain that, but it’s a complex situation) and it’s causing a lot of issues. Also, I’ve seen a few of your videos and notice that you always point out that you’re looking at your notes. Is there a specific reason why? I know some people go crazy with things like that, claiming that you’re being held hostage or something. Have you gotten accusations like that? Or is it for a totally unrelated reason and I’m just stupid.

ultimatenerd800 :

I think I'm both anxious and avoidant

floraszept11 :

based on how i ack i think i have avoident but i have no idea how i got it bc my parents were always there and very loving, but i have this problame with a lot of diferent things, like ovar all i do feel like i can never ask for help and if i do i'll becone a burden but i truly have no idea how i got thet idea...

Flower_girl :

avoidant. be4 i even watch the vid. i don't like ppl who pay attention 2 me

Oaoao :

Your sweater is so nice where did you get it??

pika :

maja :

What subjects did you do in school ?

wearyairy :

Holy anxious

ڤ :

What if I was an anxious then went mixed then completely avoidant? Is that normal ?

d 𑣲 :

u look so pretty

Alexandrya :

I feel like secure is a myth lol

YourName :

Which class was this in? Dev. Didn’t cover this at all 😮‍💨

Sarah Anne :

MY SHOW IS ON🙏

shoshikaye :

Yu

Hayes? :

Fml I’m fearful avoidant bc of my dad being shitty and my mom being great

Avery :

@✨Mikayla✨

ollie? :

disorganized ts cooked