They’re socialised to believe we’re always waiting for them to choose us in some shape or form
2026-02-01 11:45:54
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thtgrlmi :
I once had a male “friend” in college give me an ultimatum stating either we be more than friends or no longer friends at all…. Never spoke to him again.
2026-02-01 19:22:09
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peepeepoo :
“are u taken?” instead of “are u interested in me?”
2026-02-04 21:21:38
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astoldbytashona :
They genuinely don’t think we have a choice lmao
2026-02-01 04:41:10
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Jemimah bbale :
This is similar to when they say pass on a woman who was never even available to them. You can't pass on an offer that was never made.
2026-02-01 12:24:23
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as if :
It feels like entitlement, like they should always get whatever they want
2026-01-31 22:57:44
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Clair :
“But he really likes you”. And? So what? That doesn’t entitle him to me, I’m not obligated to do anything about it. He can carry on liking me….from afar.
2026-02-01 16:17:01
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Victoria Lenora :
My hairstylist tried to offer me to her nephew. She had him come to the salon and watch her do my hair. She never considered that I might not be interested.
2026-01-31 18:40:54
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ibratttttttttt :
They hit on you and immediately assume you’d want them. It’s insane, I see it every time
2026-02-01 20:34:55
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user :
i'm a lesbian and a coworker (my fav one at that) randomly confessed his feelings to me, then told me all about that he talked to his wife and that he has to cut contact with me because if we stay "friends" he WILL sleep with me
do I not have a say in that? Stephen you KNOW i'm gay. That's not gonna happen
2026-02-03 01:21:14
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charmuro :
its not just the man thats perpetuating this either. ive had men want me and i wasnt interested and our friends and parents would go "oh give him a chance". but i dont want him! why should i even give him a chance if im not interested? just bc HE wants me this is all that's needed??
2026-02-01 06:41:47
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sara 🦕✨ :
Or that them being attracted to you automatically means you’re gonna be attracted to them as well
2026-02-01 17:25:51
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matchaxmayhem :
Or when they automatically reject women in the comments like “she’s not my type” on some random girls post who didn’t ask like she never offered but in their mind if they wanted her she would just agree
2026-02-01 13:54:12
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Renae ✨ :
Like.. who are you again?? 😩
2026-01-31 20:19:14
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Dannielle✨ ADHD • Reflections :
“I wouldn’t date her” okay and???
2026-02-02 15:25:42
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Bad Bad Bad :
I think it’s definitely…derived from r/pe culture. Even if it’s not intended, there’s a implication there that they are the only one that has a choice in the matter
2026-02-01 10:35:08
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pnotsosecret :
a guy liking you feels like entrapment
2026-02-02 16:39:25
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“she would not get it” as an insult is so weird
2026-08-06 21:36:02
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Ada Manzhart :
their desire in women is based on their perception of women's utility to them. An object doesn't have preferences or autonomy.
2026-01-31 15:28:46
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Sarahtonnin :
It’s the tantrums for me when you say no 😂
2026-01-31 23:36:14
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FirelordDibs :
Last week this old guy was flirting with me, and asked if i knew spanish. i told him ya a little bit and he said "oh no a little bit wouldn't work out with us" like bud it was never happening?
2026-02-01 21:03:39
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nativevegasgirl :
They assume attraction = obligation
2026-02-03 03:27:31
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Sarah LaGasse :
“But your the only one I want!” Well…. That’s a shame
2026-02-02 17:29:41
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AnnaThing but Animals :
When they comment pictures of a celebrity and are like “why don’t women understand we like them so much better with less makeup” like why do you think she cares what you think😭
2026-02-01 16:47:49
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Winna 🦇 :
I usually keep my hair long, but when I’ve cut it, men I barely know, like coworkers and stuff, tell me they like it better longer and how sad ✨they✨ are that I cut ✨my✨ hair. Like ????? You’re not even my bf, why would you think your opinion of my physical appearance should matter to me? Why would you even tell me that?
2026-02-01 20:07:37
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