@justaskjefferson: Don't allow for bad apologies.

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shawnluther
Shawn Luther :
"I don't accept apologies. I only accept changed behavior."
2026-02-01 16:53:26
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ew8638
Elaine🐈 :
“Don’t apologize for my feelings. Apologize for what you said.” That is perfect & honestly something I have never heard before. I think I need that tattooed on the palm of my hand to keep it as a forever cheat-sheet for that exact scenario. 😆
2026-01-31 23:56:52
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wildoakcollective
p | wild oak collective 📸✨ :
“don’t apologize for my feelings, apologize for what you said” CLOCK ITTTTTTT ✨🤏🏻
2026-02-03 04:20:45
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angiecirca66
angiecirca66 :
The non-pology. Nope, not accepted
2026-01-31 22:29:30
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mydesertbloomtexas
texasdesertbloom :
If I ever get that kind of apology I follow up with, “I would like to know what specifically you are trying to apologize for?”
2026-02-01 19:12:47
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lulu.r.fairy
Avea 🧘🏾‍♀️ :
I think I’ll continue saying Don’t be sorry. Be better.😬
2026-02-02 03:25:01
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billiebillie8385758392
billiebillie8385758392 :
And don’t make your freedom dependent on people’s apologies
2026-02-01 01:35:03
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picklerick0298
PickleRick :
There's a difference between saying something offensive and saying something that someone else finds offensive. One should be apologized for and the other shouldn't have to be.
2026-01-31 23:23:23
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duckymcquacks
Ducky :
thank you for apologizing. I know apologizing is hard. my forgiveness will come when I see change.
2026-02-01 04:27:35
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sir_melhaven
Sir_Melhaven :
Apologies are for accidents.
2026-02-02 19:50:07
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kenzie_g_6
mckenzieg :
we aren't responsible for other people's feelings or we become slaves to their emotions. sometimes it wasn't something done wrong, it was their own
2026-02-02 05:47:18
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christinahorvath2
Christinac :
I hate when someone apologizes with a but.
2026-02-02 19:05:05
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sclapp
Clappmidwife :
The “I am sorry for being a bad friend, sister, husband “… I am too. So change.
2026-02-04 05:04:08
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narcabuse6
NarcissisticAbuseSurvivor :
Also an apology with words is only 25% of a real apology, the other 75% is changed behavior
2026-02-01 17:06:41
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esher.girl.on.fire
Esher Girl on Fire :
A fake apology is almost as bad as no apology- both are dismissive, lack accountability and fail to repair trust
2026-02-02 17:58:40
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trina_mariamusic
tiamaria :
A bad apology is no behaviour change! Words mean nothing!
2026-02-01 20:20:18
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triedandfailedtwice
Holls :
I do the Irish goodbye and cut them off
2026-02-03 13:06:34
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tania.shin
Tania Shin :
this is so powerful 🙏
2026-01-31 23:33:18
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deannas2004
Sunshine 🌻 :
Apologize with sincerity
2026-02-01 14:13:52
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my_name_is_marlea
*Tales*of*a*Crappy*Mom🇮🇪🇮🇪 :
I acknowledge your apology, However, I don't accept it.
2026-02-02 13:31:17
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texasflowers90
Texasflowers90 :
I genuinely am sorry if I hurt ur feelings but I am not sorry for how I feel. So “im sorry i made u feel that way” is a genuine apology. I stand by what i said but i am sorry that it hurts u.
2026-02-01 11:17:15
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gtfo1121
X :
I had a friend greet me by saying, “I’m so sorry, I’ve been such a bad friend” I just smiled but didn’t respond. Man if looks could kill..
2026-01-31 23:01:32
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birds.arent.real4656
if.you.seek.amy. :
when they pull "im a bad...." whatever, I love to flip it and say "yes! yes you are!" and then let the silence do the talking for me.
2026-02-01 21:28:07
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boston_sunshine
Dj_scotts :
How do you handle it when your partner expects an apology but you truly don't think you did anything wrong? I say "the sky is blue" and partner says he's hurt that I don't agree that it's orange. IMO he's weaponizing his "need" to be right and needs me agree w him all of the time.
2026-02-01 19:32:53
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user973018806978
Tiffany Deal :
Ugh this is the perfect thing to say and it’s so hard to think of a response like this in the moment. Also dang Jefferson you and the gym have been 🤝
2026-01-31 22:10:03
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