@antdsply: Cheating doesn’t happen because you weren’t enough. It happens when someone avoids accountability, emotional growth, and honesty. ❤️🩹 #betrayaltrauma #myth #cheating #affair #infidelityrecovery
Yeah, if it’s because of the marriage or relationship, then wouldn’t the other person also be out cheating?! Doesn’t make sense.
2026-02-01 00:27:42
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bill :
I keep asking how they could trust them over me?
2026-02-01 20:20:59
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Iris :
I thought I wasn't giving him what he needed. But he told me it was nothing I was or wasn't doing. He takes full accountability for his choices. This healing journey is not for the weak.
2026-02-02 01:08:48
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caroleharris5 :
cheating is an inherited trait it's passed down its genetic and no councilling can change that it's in there DNA relationship is a risky
2026-03-06 22:02:24
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D. Widders :
Cheating Myth Buster
2026-01-31 23:44:22
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Halz :
WELL SAID👏👏👏👏🥰
2026-04-13 02:47:07
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CatalystZer0 :
Absolutely. And when its a repeated pattern the person becomes an addict to the high and doesnt understand the consequences.
2026-02-01 18:18:46
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szicsunotti :
Thank you! This video came at the right time! 🥹
2026-03-21 05:58:18
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Joanna Wert :
100%
2026-03-10 18:45:47
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Saltee Blonde :
Amen 🙏
2026-02-01 22:56:05
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🦋Blue~Eyed~Beauty🦋 :
I needed to hear this
2026-02-09 00:01:39
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Tiffani :
Listening to this on repeat!
2026-02-01 17:30:18
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Kev B :
Thanks for reminding me
2026-02-02 09:14:52
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❤️🔥♥️Caperucita roja ♥️🔥❤️ :
Yeah and this hurts and doesn’t go away
2026-02-01 03:38:53
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Jennifer Arnold :
So well said!
2026-02-01 03:40:02
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leticia :
💯💯💯🙌🙌
2026-02-03 13:20:47
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IAmOwerriMarrasha :
🙏🙏🙏
2026-02-01 00:43:28
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Benjamin :
🙏🙏💔💔💔
2026-02-01 14:06:06
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Delta. Gen X :
💯💯💯
2026-02-02 22:03:58
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jesslynn1026 :
My partner had an affair during breast cancer and surgeries. It completely broke me. We decided to try and work it out. He watched your videos all time and would send them to me. 2 months into us trying to work things out, I found out he was still in contact with the affair partner.
2026-02-02 20:33:22
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Lauren Murphy :
does it mean they never loved you if they cheat on you multiple times
2026-02-01 15:47:54
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Nikki :
People cheat cause they want to
2026-02-02 22:08:25
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Antd Sply | Betrayal Recovery :
Why I say “myths” like that 😭😭😭
2026-01-31 23:37:26
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Jenni. :
Thank you for your words. But, I don’t feel like it was easier for my spouse to cheat. He had to do a lot of work to make arrangements and come up with a cover story, making sure I was distracted…. I still struggle with the why question. It’s been a while now since I found out and left him. I don’t think I’ll ever know the real answer.
2026-02-08 09:26:34
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Kim🩵🍭 :
💯💔
2026-02-01 23:38:46
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Sarz :
Apparently it was all my fault 🤔
2026-02-10 23:18:37
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Ray J :
thank you for sharing, and educating us all. this is a beautiful video that I needed to hear.
2026-02-04 10:25:23
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Jrm :
I am on what feels like the right path to finding the causes for my infidelity, it’s been 6 months since I’ve had to face the VERY poor choices I’ve made and the pain they’ve inflicted on others. I have days where I feel immense remorse and other days where I feel like I am capable of giving myself grace. What I’ve done is a result of my avoidance, trauma, and fear of abandonment. I grieve my own loss of a moral compass and my partner, while struggling in their own right, has shown immense courage and compassion to even attempt to heal with me when none of what I did was a result of her, or her not doing or being enough, I was morally bankrupt, and accountability is the currency to rebuild that again for me
2026-02-04 02:52:53
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Sexyredd77 :
so true
2026-02-03 03:27:21
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Smxo :
people with green flag partners need to look for conflict avoidance - them wanting to constantly please you and make you happy can be a red flag
2026-02-02 23:59:42
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Tina16 :
The other person was NOT a downgrade actually beautiful classy and a definite upgrade so your wrong in that manner
2026-02-02 18:13:48
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Tina16 :
Cheating does mean the relationship is OVER it’s a choice he wanted to do and planned PERIOD
2026-02-02 18:12:00
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Rea Walker :
nailed it 😁 cheating has nothing to do with ur partner 🥺.
2026-02-02 09:49:25
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Mckenzie Roses :
I really needed this today 😭😭
2026-02-02 02:30:37
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revelations0321 :
Thank you so saying this as I feel so unlovable and worthless. Like I’m not good enough.
2026-02-10 20:25:03
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Megen ✝️💜 :
10000000% truth
2026-03-15 13:33:50
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Sophie May :
💯💯
2026-03-12 01:54:23
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shaz :
thank you I needed to hear this ❤️
2026-03-11 00:36:03
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ADMAKTQO12 :
Well stated.👍
2026-03-06 17:39:45
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Candice Massimila :
Thank you so much for that... I always talked an he went out an be drunk always... His with her nw 5 months
2026-03-06 12:43:15
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ninya :
But if i emotionally neglected then for long that's why they did what they did, how do I accept that
2026-03-06 11:43:52
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Melaney :
👏👏👏👏
2026-02-22 14:52:47
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Johnny :
Thank you
2026-02-02 00:27:20
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kallie sheets :
What do you do when they claim to want to change, put things in place, but 2 months in “slip up” and they don’t disclose it still.. you find it. At what point do you walk
2026-02-02 19:23:57
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SUPANOVA :
Thank you for sharing this.
2026-02-08 23:54:51
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Tiktokninzy1 :
They want that loving feeling with someone else! They also want wives or gf to stay for the long old age stuff!
2026-02-06 19:51:47
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zulumike987 :
this was helpful. thank you.
2026-02-02 16:00:08
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Amber Welch :
Saving this for every time I get those thoughts in my head that I wasn’t doing enough to make him happy even though I know that I did everything that I could.
2026-02-02 16:06:50
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Christina :
how do I respond to him when he says I forced him to do it
2026-02-03 02:18:34
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Km10000 :
no integrity
2026-02-02 22:18:20
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