I was OBSESSED with this guy for 6 years and I couldn't take it anymore. I was so down bad I used the princess app and it made me realize that it was actually just a trauma response and I actually didn't even like him
2026-02-25 02:58:11
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ari :
it’s literally hell i need it to stop
2026-03-09 02:09:56
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Soufii :
I don’t get how this is not a disgnosis or is properly grasped in psychology because this can consume so much of your life :/
2026-02-18 14:27:28
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Ursula :
Often limerence stems from an unhappy childhood where the world you created in your head was there for escapism. Children and adults can battle with it. They go to a place in their head where they create scenarios and in those scenarios they are celebrated and loved- unlike the experience of their reality.
As adults limerence can still have the same roots but be amplified by boredom, a sense of lostness/lack of direction and purpose in life. Too much free time!!
The strongest desire to indulge in limerence will always come from a root of feeling unwanted, not good enough but at least this person in your head- the fantasy- chooses you.
2026-02-18 06:22:15
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ArchetypeAlice :
Girlie u are so right 🥲 Limerence is a state of mind that we can get out of. And to get in touch with sensuality a hobby I got into recently is dance which really helps 🥰
2026-02-01 08:43:24
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Sarah :
Experiencing a phase of limerence after a long-term breakup is brutal
2026-02-20 00:26:57
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𝒞𝑒𝓁𝒾𝓃𝒶 :
the only way i get over limerance is finding someone new to be limerent over, its terrible
2026-07-26 05:42:46
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jujuzxx010 :
can u feel limerance over someone you’ve never met HAHA
2026-03-19 12:49:59
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Grove :
I did an art project about this concept!!
2026-03-29 07:39:10
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kadinaja :
18 years obsessing about him.
2026-02-23 20:59:50
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123soleil483 :
And the crazy part is I don’t love him , he’s not particularly attractive or interesting even tho he is very kind . Like wtf is wrong with me
2026-06-12 13:14:45
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GamerDude55 :
Honestly, crushes can just be reminders that you can feel strongly, which is such a gift. Aaand they can be confirmation that there are amazing people out there who see us and are kind.
2026-02-17 23:16:54
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𝕵𝖔𒆙𒈒 :
I wouldn’t wish limerence on my worst enemy
2026-03-28 21:45:14
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MarkMasters :
I thought no contact would make it easier. 4.5 months on and still no better.
2026-02-02 10:33:42
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Sarah :
I had this for like 6 months, I was aware of it and how unhealthy and unrealistic it was…
2026-02-03 18:56:03
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Royaltee✨ :
limerence happens when the person "you wanted to choose you" didn't choose you. coz if the person you like and also wanted to choose you "chose you" you'd feel secure and not really dwell in limerence. and fun fact is limerence might never fade, what you'd do is replace each person with the next person. it can be stopped by choosing people that choose you first not choosing people first before they decide if they should choose you, which is 100% their right to.
2026-03-21 12:41:40
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toyavenus :
I wish I could get rid of it 😭😭😭I’m sick of it!
2026-03-28 01:32:43
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eskopsus :
I had this for a crazy 7 yrs, such a waste of time😅
2026-02-06 04:01:29
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minx :
thanks girl
2026-04-02 10:52:20
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Frederique :
This really hit home, like every single word of it. Still trying to get over him but I’ve never felt so deeply seen and understood by someone. I thought I’d met “the one” which essentially touches such a vulnerable part of yourself, especially if it doesn’t work out. Thanks for sharing, more tips always welcome xx
2026-02-03 11:36:06
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Nusa :
I hate this feeling the guy is married and this is wrong💔
2026-03-27 15:07:46
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Farihin.Mp4 :
Im boring af and chopped
2026-04-20 16:11:42
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Sir :
I got extreme Limerence for someone who was 100% into me, completely both-sided (not one-sided) but just when things got to their most intense point, they ghosted and blocked me
2026-03-12 17:32:45
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Lottie Morton :
U just have to know it’s gonna pass and try not to freak out about it too much, easy for me to say cos I’ve had it so much
2026-04-18 21:27:17
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