@rev.sydney.finn: Replying to @Snakes and a Plane especially true for ice queens ❄️ #relationshipadvice #relationshipadviceforwomen #datingadvice #datingadviceforwomen
The consequences for guessing WRONG, far outweigh the benefits of getting it right.
2026-02-03 20:54:13
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⛧ 𝕵𝖆𝖊 ⛧ :
How many generations of "men can't take hints," will we have to go through before it finally sets in?
2026-02-02 04:39:42
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Iroquois Pliskin :
acting on hints is dangerous. one girl's flirt/hint is another girl's joke/"just being nice". I decide not to do anything cause i don't wanna make you uncomfortable.
2026-02-03 10:45:07
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its.smus :
I mean, if a guys never felt desirable, why would he think a random woman would be different than anyone else? you really gotta be obvious because (i believe) most guys don't see themselves as inherently desirable.
2026-02-01 15:57:29
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Debonaire Catalina65 :
it's not that we don't notice the hints, we just don't trust them.
2026-02-02 15:44:59
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Squid Noodles :
Why not be direct instead of giving hints?
2026-02-01 23:45:19
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Thrifted Dressed :
I don’t understand how they not, if we made eyes contact multiple times, i start to follow you on social media and like your pictures. It’s petty obvious to me.
2026-02-03 16:26:08
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Lazarus :
The problem is we don’t exist in an environment where it’s safe for men to make any assumptions or judgment calls when it comes to women. Which is part of reading hints/social ques. That and women have “he should just know” syndrome which is just code for “Im horrified of rejection”
2026-02-01 20:05:54
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edaxyu :
i meannn aren’t we as women the same tho? i will also always question his intentions unless he clearly communicates them. i don’t think this is necessarily a gender thing.
2026-02-02 19:54:04
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NeverwinterNightShift :
Use your words. I’m not a detective. I need you to tell me how you feel. Just say it. You can skip getting me something for Christmas. That’ll be the greatest gift I can get: surety. No guesswork required.
2026-02-01 08:13:55
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rygell.a :
She’s just being nice until you tell him you like him
2026-02-01 15:51:13
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Kenny Podschweit :
a man will ask you if you really like him on the day of your wedding
2026-02-05 01:47:12
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AghastFthr83 :
Most guys get the hints, they just either think you're lying and don't trust you, or they think it's just you being friendly and they don't want to jump to any wrong conclusions
2026-02-03 21:51:26
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Alex :
the other thing with "hints" is that because theyre unclear most guys have been burned thinking they saw a "hint" that wasn't real. so future "hints" get ignored
2026-02-03 04:46:30
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arctosarctoshorribilis :
there's also a deeper context that women are trained to be nice to men to not aggravate them thus escaping potential assault. The man vs bear conversation fully proves that women see men as inherently and irredeemably dangerous. So when you're "sending signals", we're writing it off as ingenuine as yall are trained from brith to lie to us for safety.
2026-02-08 10:56:48
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ren-noir-ious :
Unless the green light is clear, we automatically assume it's red
2026-02-03 08:14:10
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𝕆ℝ𝔸ᵗίlє Ж𝐯ⓘ𝓘👽 :
Hints?... Is that a type of food?
2026-02-09 05:44:48
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forcefemmedodst :
I feel like as a guy I just never want to wrongly assume and then make her uncomfortable 😭😭😭
2026-02-04 22:10:00
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2sanitwice :
We don’t read minds
2026-02-01 20:05:56
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Micky the Sieve :
No, we can’t take hints and we don’t pick up on subtle flirting. Add that to the fact that these days a mistake can be absolutely catastrophic for a man and you have a perfect formula for men not approaching women. Why would a man risk his livelihood because he thinks she might be flirting? The downside is just too much for the gamble.
2026-02-02 15:39:16
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Gold Phoenix :
Literally just say it. Men need to HEAR it
2026-02-01 20:24:58
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Axl :
I am great at catching hints... five years later while having a can of soda on a random Tuesday
2026-02-15 00:03:58
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Otis 🇨🇦 :
Yes. Most interesting and beautiful woman I had ever met. Took a job in a foreign country just to be close to her. I really liked her but after a few weeks I felt I had no shot. I told the group I was moving back to my home country and she ran out of the room crying. I was so confused.
2026-02-01 17:53:13
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user3457999887654 :
I’m noticing this lately. I’ve been sleeping with a guy on and off for months. I thought it was obvious that I liked him bc…ya know…I sleep with him!! And he was SHOCKED to hear that I liked him 😵💫 Dude.
2026-02-01 14:18:11
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