@janette.xzeto: Anxious and avoidant partners aren’t trying to hurt each other. They’re trying to feel safe in very different ways. One moves toward connection to regulate. The other moves toward space. Neither is wrong. But without awareness both people end up feeling unseen. When anxious partners understand that space isn’t rejection and avoidant partners understand that closeness isn’t control the dynamic starts to soften. This is where conflict stops being personal and starts becoming navigable. Awareness doesn’t fix everything. This is the work I do with clients helping different nervous systems learn how to feel safe together. If this resonated comment DONE 🤍 #anxiousattachment #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyle #nueroplasticity

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