James J. Sexton
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Sunday 01 February 2026 14:13:24 GMT
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Dan Brown :
People need to be far less concerned about tone and substantially more focused on speaking the truth….. the number of outright lies told in relationships is truly tragic.
2026-02-01 21:45:07
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Spiritualbaby444 :
I feel the biggest take away is not to tone monitor that can get very close to controlling. Tone monitoring is unhealthy. Yes we should always be respectful. But never tone monitoring
2026-02-02 11:08:34
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Neo Senku :
its simple for me. if your coming with a mean or aggressive tone you're disrespecting me and I'm not tolerating that.
2026-02-04 01:15:46
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Paul :
In all cases in life. It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it!
2026-02-01 15:31:46
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prettyzenflower :
We know James’s partner doesn’t raise her voice at all cause she gets easily startled by loud noise. He is blessed compared to Alexandro 🥰
2026-02-01 15:30:41
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mwilkinsphoto :
I think he meant to speak on how a person self regulates. He should have phrased it as “I don’t require her emotional state to be pleasant as a foundation for my own self regulation. “ but yes you need couples to speak to each other nicely in a marriage for it to work out.
2026-02-28 16:45:31
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Smiles61973 :
It’s not always what you say it’s the way you say it
2026-02-02 00:25:47
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conflictedbaby :
u dont need to “absorb” someone’s frustration. u should acknowledge it
2026-03-17 12:07:12
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CoralAthena :
Lawyers just really know how to articulate properly like they speak well and think before speaking and hear
2026-02-03 04:03:50
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Tonya Krick :
Just be kind
2026-06-22 18:25:55
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MaY🌺 :
so people only want the good and comforting in a relationship. we are human. sometimes im mad and people are gonna hear that. im not gonna swalow all my emotions for the comfort of someone else. its the good ánd the bad in a relationship.
2026-02-28 11:40:38
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lisasteinhardt15 :
you also need to learn to argue/ debate things you disagree on also without getting offended, and learn to calm each other on bad days because it will happen
2026-03-15 10:14:12
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theconduits :
I watch quite a bit of James‘s content… He is my kind of guy.
2026-02-02 18:02:33
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Lakota Engineer :
Goal oriented about results. Tone is communication and clear communication is critical to a relationship and clear communication saves time. It shouldn't happen often.
2026-02-02 16:11:29
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silverandgold22 :
My partner got into the gottman method when he got into therapy and I love it. Disrespect should be avoided and if it happens, apologize and repair!
2026-02-03 16:11:09
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J. R. Mac :
Sexton mouth movements kill me I can’t concentrate or listen to anything😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-02-02 11:53:25
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Karla :
I will say respect and have some levels of healing. It will help improve your communication.
2026-02-01 16:06:30
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John :
It’s not sustainable forever
2026-02-02 05:07:33
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Lexus :
i state at my partner im mad but need to say something, then say why im upset then we take breaths and solve it. works well for me to state i can't say something nice so its taken with salt.
2026-03-03 23:40:00
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Nathan Zander178 :
“As much as it brings us closer together”
2026-02-28 03:06:07
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dhsbzgzhsb :
I get what he's trying to say. If I didnt come to my ex husband with a criticism and use an apologetic, quite voice with very carefully chosen words I would get screamed at. He NEEDED me to talk to him in a particular way to emotionally regulate him.
2026-03-10 11:01:56
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John :
don't accept aggression from your spouse,
2026-03-18 10:12:39
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joebloggs868 :
A bad tone denotes disrespects and that cannot be tolerated.
2026-03-18 04:59:52
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TerryMc :
Can't we all just talk to each other with love, & reapect?
2026-02-01 21:39:46
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KC :
Tell me this dude doesn’t sound like him
2026-02-01 15:56:40
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