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🌸 britt 🇵🇷 🌸 :
Some jobs are physically and mentally taxing. I’m braindead when I get home from work.
2026-02-01 20:00:59
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Jeff_Arthur :
Those hobbies are in their homes. 9 hours at work (8 working 1 lunch,) an hour drive each way, 8 hours of sleep, an hour of waking, washing, and eating in the morning? That's already 20 hours a day. An hour at the gym (ignoring drive time,) and I have time left to cook, eat, and clean the kitchen, and watch a movie or maybe skip the gym and play a game for a few hours with the boys. That's 24 hours a day.
2026-02-10 06:25:34
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semireal :
Honestly, I’d rather spend my own money on myself and do my own hobbies and interest on the side. They are more fulfilling than trying to manage other people’s emotions and baggage. I think most men think like this now.
2026-02-05 23:31:39
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MPFarley :
whatever we want... that's what we're doing
2026-02-14 15:45:46
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me00ve11a :
Jobs are tiring
2026-02-02 02:29:24
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Zack Mendoza :
it's a nice way of saying, dating is exhausting and time consuming and I don't have time to do it with you or anyone.
2026-02-20 03:11:18
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ObiRik :
48-50hrs a week I barely have time to go to the gym, I don’t have time to date or talk to anyone else’s besides ppl I care about
2026-02-18 10:01:50
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AyeeYoPierre :
If I am up at 4:45 hit the gym for 5. 5-6 workout. Home, straight to work till 4 pm hour commute home, dinner, it’s 6:30 pm I might have an hour and a half
2026-02-18 13:28:02
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Joe Chill :
my job is everything. idek you
2026-02-17 00:24:21
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shaydashaman :
Sounds like you have an easy job
2026-02-03 06:43:37
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Dillon :
They probably work significantly more than you think they do. If they work in a demanding field/company you can easily fill an entire week with work, sleep, workouts, chores
2026-02-03 02:25:19
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Goolius Boozler :
Dating is stressful and I already get enough stress at my job.
2026-02-15 08:23:06
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Chi :
It’s all about intention. I MAKE time for people and things that I want to spend time with/for. But the rest can be put aside for whenever I have the energy or capacity. 🤷🏽♀️
2026-02-01 18:45:11
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Juice :
Because acquiring and keeping a gf is a full time job and I choose to surf and travel and enjoy the occasional chemistry I get from dating rather than the full time commitment.
2026-02-02 01:10:10
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DrenchedInError :
Laundry, groceries, cooking/meal prep, chores, errands, self care. Ain’t no one taking care of that stuff for me, except me.
2026-02-01 22:44:07
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mikeaudo :
Genuinely every woman I've been with wants more time (energy) from me than I have to give. So 3-4 months in, I'm feeling spread thin, she's feeling neglected, and no one's happy. So I just avoid relationships.
2026-02-04 21:05:10
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Phase Shift :
Some of us are not social creatures. Spending time with humans (in general) is exhausting and to be avoided. Spending time dating? Well now I have to perform. And that sucks even worse. If I could genuinely be myself? Sure. But women aren’t attracted to that.
2026-02-04 13:48:27
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Brandon :
a lot of us don’t have wealth to fall back on so we’re working 60-72 hour weeks to get ahead. Having 1 day to share for family and friends and a potential gf is difficult
2026-02-02 02:43:07
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nicbon57 :
Video games
2026-02-01 22:55:38
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Kali Greene :
This is me as a women in the mechanic field. I just can’t bruh. I’m exhausted
2026-03-29 20:58:52
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OhMyHessNess :
the rest of the time is spent sleeping and eating. where do you get all this extra time from?
2026-04-04 14:48:42
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makeitso :
enjoying my peace, developing my 2 hobbies, packing up new interests, spending time w friends. I've decentered women and my life is so much better now.
2026-02-05 17:55:28
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Hahaha :
My 30 yo son has a girlfriend but if that relationship ended, yeah, I can see him saying “I don’t have time to date.” He is busy AF with his job… 60-70 hour weeks.
2026-02-17 05:13:02
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TI Davis :
We will find time if we want to see you.
2026-02-20 15:09:58
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