Sadly, emotional intelligent does not equal functional.
2026-02-03 16:59:21
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Luca Horváth :
So i’m not traumatized, i’m just a fckin genius
2026-02-03 21:48:36
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andrea :
two negatives make a positive
2026-02-01 19:34:58
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Gus :
How I genuenly feel rn.
2026-02-02 22:26:27
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Stacey :
This isn’t always true. A lot of times, an emotionally unavailable parent combined with an emotionally dysregulated one actually creates avoidant (or fearful-avoidant) attachment, not emotional intelligence. Children often become hyper-aware and hyper-independent as a survival response, learning to suppress their own needs rather than safely express them. Whether this turns into true emotional intelligence depends on the child’s temperament, resilience, and whether they have healthy regulation and self-esteem modeled outside the home (sports, mentors, community, etc.)
2026-02-02 17:38:22
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Conrad :
Inconsistent parenting is the absolute worst for children
2026-02-03 07:23:58
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Saadi :
but it sometimes causes overthinking and hyper sensitivity ( in my case)
2026-02-02 03:57:27
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SitDownAbe :
somehow turned to an anxious avoidant if that makes any sense
2026-02-03 20:10:26
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Galarian Casual :
reverse curse technique
2026-02-03 17:09:50
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you described my situation istg😭 (call me corny idc)
2026-02-01 19:59:13
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ariellc6 :
You learn NOT what to do as a parent (if you become one)
2026-02-05 05:57:02
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Buena Vibra :
Attuned to others but not to self.
2026-02-03 17:41:01
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Dex 🏴☠️ :
This dynamic left me not trusting my parents with any advice or other guidance but I see that as a good thing because it lead me to become open minded and a free thinker earlier than I believe I would have.
2026-02-04 15:35:08
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Dxvd :
literally my parents holy shit.
2026-02-04 05:45:18
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︎ :
Cursed energy is negative energy.
When you multiply that negative energy by itself, it creates positive energy.
That’s Reverse Cursed Technique
2026-02-04 06:19:32
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Good :
howabout emotionally unavailable both parties and emotionally volatile n unstable caregiver.. what's the result of that
2026-02-15 09:34:03
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aparks1437 :
results may vary
2026-02-02 19:11:37
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🦇Jax24🦇 :
blessed but at what cost
2026-02-13 01:37:37
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Πεισίστρατος Πεοκεφαλίδης :
can we stop using the term eq
2026-02-01 19:50:35
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2ndamendtraining.com :
This is basically how reverse curse technique works 😂😂😂
2026-02-02 21:57:36
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𝕵𝖚𝖑𝖎𝖆♡ :
it doesn’t help with eq, it creates hyper vigilance and avoiding unstable people or people pleasing
2026-02-04 12:36:14
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. :
how i feel :
2026-02-03 09:16:14
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PsychedelicApe :
then you grow up with heightened awareness and suffer for it. I can read people and situations like a book. problem is, I have to let it play out or I look like a hater or a problem if I call bullshit early. I just learned to watch and observe.
2026-02-03 19:30:55
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