I’m not ashamed to say that I keep attracting men who willingly want to fund my life. And no, it’s not luck. It’s strategy. I do these five things and they make men want to step up without me chasing or begging. 1. I value myself first. I don’t wait for a man to validate my worth. When I show that I know my value, men automatically recognize it too. They see a woman who respects herself and, naturally, they rise to meet that energy. 2. I set clear standards. I don’t hint. I don’t hope. I make my expectations known very early from effort to consistency, respect, loyalty. Men who can’t meet them are filtered out without drama. 3. I focus on my growth. Money, skills, mindset, appearance I constantly invest in myself. A man will want to contribute when he sees that you’re already building your life, not waiting for him to complete it. 4. I give attention strategically. I don’t over-give or over-explain. I make sure my time, energy, and affection are earned and appreciated. This makes men choose to give, not take for granted. 5. I don’t apologize for wanting more. I want comfort, respect, and consistency and I make no excuses for it. Wanting a man to step up doesn’t make me materialistic, it makes me intentional. I’ll break all of this down in much more detail especially how women miss these steps and end up settling for less. For now, 👉follow me for more women coded tips - @womencoded1