@burned_notbroken: I know I’m not the only one who has felt this way. #divorcetok #shouldistayorshouldigo #almostdivorced #breakuptiktok #separation

xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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missyp0810
Missy :
I haven’t been able to put into words exactly what I have been feeling… but this is it!
2026-02-02 00:22:13
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bajamija
BajaMija :
This. I h@te who I have become. Cold, uninterested, detached.
2026-02-06 23:41:48
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faithhenderson130
Faith | sahm :
How do you know it’s time to go? I feel like I’m in the same boat. I do not like the person I’ve become. We got together very young and have two children.. we both see individual therapists and a couples therapist. Was there a specific reason you don’t think you could’ve worked through it while still together? I’m struggling to know how long we should continue fighting. This isn’t what I want for my children’s childhood but I do see a future with him in a healthy way. We’re both continuing to fight but I feel like the progress is very little for the amount of time we’ve been working on it.
2026-03-02 01:42:17
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sparedthegrief
chickenlittle :
Thank you for saying what I couldn’t put in words. 34 years of marriage and I filed papers last week.
2026-02-02 01:55:59
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erbiemom
Sandra Marie :
when I decided that I was going to file for divorce from my husband who had been cheating on me for 7 and 1/2 years out of 8 years of our relationship I grew a backbone and I became somebody I knew I wanted to be. when I was with him, I tried to contort myself into who he wanted me to be. but now I have that voice and I have that backbone, I like who I am now.
2026-04-01 18:08:59
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sabrina_3899
Sabrina :
This was me 💯 . I stopped caring.
2026-02-03 15:45:41
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b_sovereign
Brit :
I’m not disciplined anymore….he isn’t. He also isn’t ambitious. I am. And I see it disappearing. I’m so terrified
2026-02-03 00:54:04
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sour_patch81
(B)randie 🏳️‍🌈🐐 :
I feel the exact same way so I’m finally choosing myself and getting divorced.
2026-02-03 15:11:38
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mariamorales634
Maria Morales :
The same. I felt these ways. And my friend asked me and I burst into tears and said this exact same thing. It’s been 40 days no contact. After 17 years
2026-02-02 00:01:05
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va_wildflower_
Wildflower :
THIS!!!!!
2026-02-05 19:10:54
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brandyrenee_nmrealtor
brandyrenee_roswellrealtor_ :
I said that yesterday.
2026-02-07 05:01:58
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life_with_juli
Juli Andrews :
Yes!!!!
2026-02-03 15:48:58
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brazilian_dimple_delight
🇧🇷DimplesDelight😜🇧🇷 :
Omggggggggggggggg this is me
2026-02-03 14:43:53
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mrs.momma.kerr
Miki Hull ❌💋 :
I thought the same way I realize I was trying to keep score and that’s when I knew it was time to go
2026-02-01 23:46:37
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stevielyn85
Stevielyn :
this is how I feel.
2026-02-06 20:00:24
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glow.up.grief
Glow up Grief :
I feel like this right now. The hardest part for me has been realizing this didn’t happen in a vacuum. I’m glad you are happy now.
2026-02-01 23:15:02
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shannonmarie416
Shannon Marie :
yes
2026-02-03 19:53:20
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heidi.beachy1
Heidi Beachy :
Yes
2026-02-03 02:24:07
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shannonn84
Shannon84 :
I’m trying to curl train my hair. Can you say how you do yours? When I try right mines similar to yours. Just half of it is doing it lol
2026-02-03 09:07:27
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simplylindsg
✿ Linds ✿ :
That is literally me.
2026-02-05 03:49:53
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jlee1990
Jessica :
this is me right now 😞
2026-02-04 00:12:37
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k_la001
K_la000 :
Same! And btw your curls are gorgeous
2026-02-03 21:10:53
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stylingwithsarah
Styling with Sarah :
How will you feel confident co-habitating again that you won’t revert back to that version of yourself? I ask because I can totally relate to this and am moving out and doing an intentional separation because of it.
2026-02-05 18:57:16
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busybakermama
user4559917392568 :
Can you speak more on your separation and what that looked like and how you guys worked on reconciliation?
2026-03-09 22:00:49
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brandirenee99
brandirenee99 :
I’m currently in this exact position and having lived apart for 6 months we are doing our best to reconcile. I am still currently living in my own place. Do you have any tips as we start navigating this? Thank you for sharing!
2026-02-06 19:31:14
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