@ask_julia: Most women have no idea how much power they actually hold in dating and relationships and that’s exactly why so many end up stuck in situationships, drained relationships, and chasing men who do the bare minimum. What would happen if women collectively raised their standards and stopped giving access to men who weren’t meeting them? The answer isn’t manipulation. It’s biology, psychology, and leverage. #datingadviceforwomen #highvaluewoman #selfworthadvice