@ask_julia: Dating advice for anyone feeling rushed into commitment: slow dating, consistency, and real green flags beat love-bombing every time. If they want exclusivity by date two, that’s not chemistry—it’s urgency. Learn how to spot patterns, ask better questions, and protect your energy so you choose a healthy partner, not a fast one. Save this if you’re tired of red flags wearing roses and ready for a slow burn that lasts. #datingadviceforwomen #datingadvicefortheladies #redflagsinmen
I told him I wasn’t interested and he said he’d settle with low effort relationships…sir what? 😳 I immediately blocked .
2026-02-19 19:31:25
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texmexkarla :
So true. Patterns and consistency.
2026-02-03 13:47:59
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The moon 🌙 :
Yes ! This is so true , also men who say “do you trust me” after meeting you once
2026-02-03 13:40:03
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I only had known this guy for 3 months and he said he was crying and that he misses his favorite person (which apparently happened to be me) because he didn't see me for 5 days. I'm thinking to myself we barely know each other like what? he even painted his vehicle in pink because I told him pink is my favorite color a few weeks ago.
2026-07-16 01:15:20
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rob.ryon :
Some people call it romantic intensity. I call it emotional grooming.
2026-02-04 01:16:38
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Alisa Nelson :
We been seeing each other since the middle of May but there was a time a year before we talked on and off and went on a date. He claims it’s weird I don’t want to comitt to him yet and he’s been a long time is 4 1/2 months along time to see each other and not want to comitt yet? I was considering it but than at the end of July I felt pressure. Only way he calmed down about it was cuz his mom told him to relax.. is this me or should I be worried about the pressure?
2026-08-17 09:03:17
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Asma :
from day 2 he said hes rushing into marriage lol which for me didnt make sense
2026-08-04 12:54:45
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Maggie 🍒 :
Very true, I just wish I saw this December 2024 🌚😅
2026-02-03 16:02:31
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Lucero :
we were talking, I want us to slow down and get to know each other more and I told him how I feel how he was making me feel like rushing
2026-09-05 18:31:38
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mamatonesorginal :
So true!
2026-02-03 17:35:02
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Mari gold :
true.❤
2026-02-03 16:30:16
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Jaclyn :
This is true.
2026-03-06 01:59:50
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heyitsjayy_jayy :
So true!!!
2026-02-10 06:00:20
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Theraydiantlook :
THIS.
2026-03-13 02:31:05
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Laura :
This makes so much sense. The guy that I just went on a date with now wants to be exclusive but it’s only been one date 😳
2026-02-03 14:23:21
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Kati-Energetic Equilibrium :
Yeah, that’s the absolute truth. Anybody needs to try to get to know you like understand you be around you see if they even like you they are just trying to own you cage it’s really freaking weird.
2026-02-03 23:20:27
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