@drb_unfiltered: In all seriousness, we’re all individualized. Sensory issues CAN and DO show up for people with ADHD…this isn’t just an autism thing, even though that’s what a lot of people assumes.
For women entering perimenopause? Hormonal shifts can make sensory sensitivities that were never an issue before suddenly feel unbearable. Your body is changing, your nervous system is recalibrating, and intimacy can become a minefield you didn’t see coming.
Education is everything here. You becoming informed about YOUR experiences from what pulls you out, what keeps you present, how your nervous system responds, all of that are the first steps in approaching things differently. Because sensory processing during s//ggs isn’t something you just get over or can ignore without consequences. It’s real, it’s valid, and it impacts int1m4cy in ways most people don’t fully understand.
Disclaimer: This is education, not a solution manual. I don’t give cookie cutter fixes in comments or captions because everyone’s experience is complex and layered. This is the work I do with my clients by helping them map out their nervous system, needs, and executive function, then setting up systems that work for their bodies, minds, relationships, and s//ggsual needs as they’ve outlined them.
Your sensory experience is unique so your solutions need to be too.
#adhd #relationships #perimenopause #sensory
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Tuesday 03 February 2026 15:42:18 GMT
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Frostie :
I cannot have my eyes open. I don't know what it is but I can't focus on the feelings if my eyes are open
2026-02-04 15:39:11
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BKTG :
"don't fart, don't fart, don't fart"
2026-02-03 17:03:24
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That Girl Named Mel :
Is this why kissing makes me feel suffocated and gaggy out of no wear??
2026-02-05 01:20:10
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Kittensofdoom :
This! And my mind wanders a lot. One minute this is great, the next I’m thinking about that movie I watched 10 years ago.
2026-02-04 23:58:35
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GTbackup :
I blamed all my sensory issues on my adhd but it turns out I am just a lesbian.
2026-02-04 15:18:39
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Lady Wynn :
Once his sweat dropped straight into my mouth. I nearly screamed.
2026-02-03 18:42:40
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✨️Emily✨️ :
my adhd wouldnt let me get to the end of this video. be back later bestie 😘
2026-02-03 18:02:57
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criesandcheesefries :
when hes putting in work but his sweat drips onto me.... immediately no because the sensation of that drip cause a tsunami of sensation across my skin and made me overly aware of my meat suit casing and now I might flip a table
2026-02-03 18:31:17
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ForniCait :
This just made me burst out in tears.. cause I thought I’m actually going crazy 🥲
2026-02-03 18:33:19
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Maggie :
I am a NO LIGHT TOUCH girly!
2026-02-03 18:26:12
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🪞𝔉𝔞𝔟𝔩𝔢𝔡𝔅𝔯𝔦𝔡𝔤𝔢🪞 :
It’s weird because sensory issues are not a problem for me but my executive dysfunction could end NATIONS
2026-02-03 18:17:56
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MegPie🇨🇦 :
ADHD + luteal phase + perimenopause = A new personal hell.
2026-02-05 22:05:23
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mondoartist :
Yup. Smells for me.
Usually fine. But some moments turn me off
2026-02-03 17:21:20
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Kelly Jo | SAHW 💛 :
This is why I love thc gummies, makes that part of my brain shut off and everything else turn on. It’s great.
2026-02-04 01:59:18
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dongdepot :
One time a partner put on music and it happened to be songs that I knew well- I was so overstimulated, I didn’t know what to pay attention to 😅
2026-02-04 16:02:33
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LeeLooandFriendsAK :
perimenopause can give your sense of smell a boost, which is EVEN WORSE
2026-02-03 18:10:32
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Bw2rox :
Spit sounds, breathing sounds 😩😩😩 sometimes I want to put in earplugs
2026-02-05 11:53:47
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WendyNTheCity #1 FITNESS COACH :
The breathe, the persons skin, the persons natural odor, the hair on their body 🤢 plus my autism
2026-02-03 16:14:38
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ScrapsOfLove :
My hair is on my neck.
2026-02-03 17:57:28
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✨ bbliss6 ✨ :
im a bald baddie now bc if my hair was touching the back of my neck during intim4¢y i would FREAK OUT
2026-02-04 23:22:18
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Char :
If he’s staring at me I might as well just give up there because I’ll be put off for about three to five business days
2026-02-05 19:49:39
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Sydney Raven :
I have sinus issues and kissing has become almost completely impossible because I cannot breathe
2026-02-05 16:54:57
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Mine :
Omg don’t touch my nipples
2026-02-05 13:20:54
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Caitlin :
yep. I have always had sensory issues. especially smells but Im 35 going into perimenopause and its soooo bad lately
2026-02-03 16:29:36
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dannytheedancedoula :
Open mouth Kisses 😅
2026-02-04 16:12:43
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