I don’t need all day communication 😭 just intentional communication that’s predictable.
2026-02-04 00:00:25
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vaginashapedkidney :
Girl 48 hrs no check in is crazy, going from 24/7 everyday to randomly 48 missing is not the vibe tho
2026-02-20 17:17:23
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Ang :
True, but that person should be communicating clearly and establishing that secure foundation
2026-02-03 22:02:37
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smrose :
I’m realizing that social media has destroyed our concept of what love is and has only encouraged my toxic behaviors as an anxiously attached girly myself. I’m on a relationship with a ma who has his own life, goals, and responsibilities and the daily internal battle is exhausting but it’s helping me see the problem with my current thinking of relationships.
2026-02-03 18:02:30
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M A U L A N A :
Ok what about 9hrs on delivered?
2026-02-04 03:19:41
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De’Andrea 🌹 :
Following because I’m healing from anxious attachment too😭
2026-02-04 04:19:16
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flowithmillyy :
I feel so deeply proud of myself that everything you said, I literally believe it it. I am recovering since years from my anxious attachment and I swear I feel so damn better about it!!
2026-02-04 11:05:01
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jemariess :
As a therapist…THIS!!! Consistency is not love bombing. Consistency is simply showing up.
2026-02-06 23:37:16
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BREONNA🪩🫧💋 :
“A secure person doesn’t need constant proof or reassurance because we trust the foundation” 🎯
2026-02-04 04:44:33
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juhhhhnellli :
IM WORKING ON IT LIZZZZZ
2026-03-12 09:48:01
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sofia. :
His day was quiet, he stopped texting, I thought it was because he was pulling away.. turns out he was pulling away. Told me a few days after he wasn’t feeling it and didn’t know how to tell me. Sometimes, it just is because of that.
2026-02-18 00:31:05
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JustXhale :
If it’s a long distance relationship that missed call, canceling visitations, etc that makes a huge difference
2026-02-09 00:05:44
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Masum Pervez221 :
I needed this reminder 🫠 I thought consistency meant doing more, trying harder, pushing through discomfort. Meanwhile my body was overwhelmed—cravings, puffiness, mood swings, zero ease. I honestly felt hopeless. Late one night I saw people quietly talking about Eat Like A Woman Protocol, written by Loren Green, and decided to try a different approach. My body finally responded—flatter belly, calmer nervous system, real energy and 30 lbs gone. Wild how hidden this kind of info is.
2026-02-10 18:27:47
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Haylie 🫧🤎 :
& this is why women need hobbies outside of men…. Thinking about what a man is doing all day is exhausting asf… Go enjoy your own company. Go to the gym. Go read a book. Chill with girl friends & have a drink. There’s so much more to life than a man 🤍.
2026-03-05 20:39:29
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jeri nykole ≽ܫ≼ :
I just need basic communication, 2-3 times a day. Just simple.
2026-02-03 21:46:27
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mae :
yep. but i still need once a day communication. simple check ins will do
2026-02-06 13:23:04
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kickitwityakind_ho :
Hold my hand next time sis
2026-03-27 02:59:05
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dee.🪽💘 :
Literally space is good and being attatched isnt healthy. Life happens
2026-02-04 12:56:38
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Mima Lopez :
So it’s OK if I don’t hear from him all day long 🥺🥺🥺
2026-02-03 23:11:22
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arianna 🫧 :
I used to be so anxious when it came down to constant communication. It was like if they weren’t talking to me, they lost interest. As of now, I’m the complete opposite. I feel like when someone builds the foundation by communicating all day everyday. it sets up a false sense of security.
2026-02-05 00:48:32
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Nataly :
Okay but what if he WAS saying good morning and goodnight everyday? He set the standard. I wasn’t expecting it. And now he fizzled out with those actions/patterns he himself set
2026-03-31 19:24:08
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Brenda Perez :
His actions is what I'm looking at..
2026-02-04 18:34:59
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Jamie :
Fair. And I do agree to an extent. But when you’ve learned over time, multiple times that distance and a dip in communication DID mean losing interest and that HAS been the case every time 😏 there comes a point where I have to trust patterns and not gaslight myself into believing things are fine when they aren’t.
2026-02-03 22:57:16
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save.the.potatoes 🇵🇹 :
I only think "good morning" and "good night" messages are important, because they let you know you're on their mind
2026-03-07 11:20:07
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