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i have insecurities like everyone else but i’m literally just autistic (adhd, etc.) and severely traumatized 😭 please keep that in mind before you tell someone they’re toxic due to deep insecurities. you can really hurt people if you aren’t properly educated on things. deep insecurities typically stem from trauma so keep that in mind too
2026-02-04 04:50:36
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Emily :
Number two is wrong as a neurodivergent person I do follow script but it’s not because I’m insecure. It’s because I don’t have good social cues.
2026-03-23 01:08:26
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Dalol_chan :
No i disagree you’re overthinking this
2026-02-12 17:06:46
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Sarah Munnik :
Hold on just a minute, people panic when things change because that's ADHD! Not insecurity! People with ADHD have to mentally prepare themselves to be with other people and when things change, it's not easy. Take it from me, I have ADHD.
2026-03-04 14:23:17
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Phoenix Pigeon :
Ok but the script and preparation is because I’m autistic
2026-02-04 05:27:33
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bloopll :
I think you’re assuming insecurity is just equivalent to maliciousness in this
2026-02-04 06:09:02
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ρᥱroᥒᥲ🧁 :
im really insecure of myself and I hate myself and I don't do this at all.
2026-03-10 12:01:33
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Emma :
I am deeply insecure and I don’t do this
2026-03-04 22:34:07
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Marit van den Berg :
okay but why is this kinda me
2026-02-19 23:57:06
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Alora Rosenberg :
I put myself down for others because I genuinely want to see people win and feel good about themselves. not insecure but I should probably treat myself better
2026-03-03 03:23:43
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Becca 🇨🇦 :
I do the compliment thing I think sometimes 😫 but it’s bc I like it but don’t think I personally could pull it off. It’s intended as a compliment of their features that I don’t have/admire
2026-02-06 19:24:03
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noelle :
Is that anxiety too
2026-02-24 15:45:55
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lifeby_susanamaria :
sounds a little like me but not really
2026-03-24 21:55:12
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Live With CDP :
Bingo 100% good topic & now following
2026-02-06 02:57:10
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Iwillwin17 :
Brandon megan
2026-02-08 16:24:25
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MIMexicana :
I did jury duty I know how it goes
2026-03-01 10:19:01
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Kianna✝️❤️ :
So true!
2026-02-03 21:38:09
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moon :
What should I do about the third one sometimes it just slips 😞 to be honest I usually do it so the other person feels better but now I realise it’s probably just awkward
2026-03-05 00:15:36
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ZiggyStormCrow1980 :
I have to admit number 2 can be a bit of a problem for me. Change in routine or plans already made can cause me distress and discomfort,I try to use coping mechanisms to handle it and I think I’m getting better. I have ASD but I don’t want to use it as an excuse.
2026-03-26 01:15:56
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cjki🩷 :
thats me
2026-02-08 16:43:57
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harriett🙃🙂 :
who else had all 3
2026-03-04 17:09:59
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Galiana_17 :
I want to stay
2026-04-05 10:37:04
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Hi-diddly-ho, neighborino! :
Im very insecure but I wouldn’t say I do any of this, im js quite sensitive
2026-02-19 17:39:24
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