He was my 1st relationship and he cried after. I comforted my abuser and it had me very confused for a very long time. It’s been 11 years and it still gets to me
2026-02-04 05:31:02
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ray.sunshine63 :
“What were you wearing?” He was my DAD
2026-02-04 02:32:29
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breezy :
The police quite literally would not let me report because it was one of their friends 🫡
2026-02-04 07:34:05
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Ruben :
Thank you for sharing something so personal. I really hope you get justice. This instances make me so angry and in so sorry it happened to you.
2026-02-03 23:18:51
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AaronReitmeyer :
my ex. i was sick and kept saying no
2026-02-04 11:30:19
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Tiffinnie :
hey brosephina, this was super validating. for me, I didnt register it as assault immediately and blamed myself.
2026-02-04 03:20:09
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Sophie :
When people ask “what were you wearing.” I love to remind them that SA has been happening for years, like way back when ankles were provocative, and they covered everything up. So it does NOT matter.
2026-02-04 05:23:03
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lea_vski :
As a SA victim you almost never get justice. This system is so fcked up. Even though SA is really on of the worst things a person can happen in their life, psychologically said.
2026-02-04 10:10:43
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luqsad :
why it took so long? my family and my mother told me throughout my childhood and still do that this is ok this is uncles love and I’m overthinking
2026-02-04 20:22:13
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Kim :
I gasped when you said the police made you ring the person who assaulted you! how completely traumatising and horrific, im so sorry you had to go through that along with the assault itself 😪 sending you healing, you're doing so much good by speaking about this for other survivors!
2026-02-08 22:15:53
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Azazel :
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, Sofia 🫂🩷
2026-02-09 13:02:05
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hiiiiii0000_ :
SA is literally an attack, so there's no "reason", other than the attacker felt entitled to attack
2026-02-04 04:42:14
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Osamah :
use your anger to thrive, that's what i did
2026-02-04 19:28:13
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rosie ♡ :
this. this. this. i was scared for so long to tell people what happened to me because even though i knew it was wrong, i was scared of be judged because i didn’t fight enough.
2026-02-04 16:24:22
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Ro 🇪🇺 :
sending love Sofia ❤️🩹
2026-02-03 22:44:28
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Margaret Todd :
I don’t want to like this video, but I do want more people to see it. I’m so sorry you went through that 🖤
2026-02-03 23:34:54
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zey :
thank you so much for filming this ❤️
2026-02-04 07:01:03
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Ant :
I’m so sorry that your process with reporting it to law enforcement was done so backwards and wrong
2026-02-04 00:42:07
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red :
this is so reassuring and perfectly worded thank you
2026-02-04 06:20:18
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Dripdoll :
Sending love 🤍
2026-02-03 23:16:31
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Rayna ★ :
It’s depicted as violent (which it can be) but it’s not always and thats why it’s so difficult for victims to relize what actually happened. As well as society tends to forget that girls can SA other girls. When you’re part of a group that isn’t represented or talked about the process of dealing with it is impossible.
2026-02-04 00:51:17
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Red 🚩 :
‘What were you wearing’ he was literally my grandpa. It was supposed to be a hug
2026-02-10 17:26:22
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Bella Rose :
thank you for talking about this
2026-02-12 06:36:35
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Eleonora | Psicolinguista, PhD :
I have absolutely no idea whatsoever what I was wearing
2026-02-04 13:00:32
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