@destiny.mellow: How do I become more stern but less confrontational?? 😩 #tips #help #confrontational #imspeaking #fyp

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bossmamaa12
Cheyenne 🖤 :
I do the , Ope excuse me i wasn’t done. And then just give them a dirty look and walk away if it continues. Cause what you mean you don’t know how to have an adult conversation?
2026-02-04 14:29:12
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porkchop_96
porkchop_96 :
That's when you get loud trust me I would know i've been there so I know the feeling that you have
2026-02-04 15:10:12
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shelle.5617
Michelle Peters :
I use to be like this but now I am just blunt, "I wasn't done speaking, I did not interrupt you so please dont interrupt me." If they say something back or keep talking I walk away. Then when they ask why I respond with "it seems like we are not having a conversation but when you are ready to listen and not just speak, let me know"
2026-02-04 18:50:58
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stumblez16
Charity Kerschner :
Im soft spoken too and i have a hard time standing up for myself. Im working on standing up for myself
2026-02-04 14:29:14
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crickettamanda
Crickett :
I walk away and refuse to speak to or listen to them. If they walk up to me I give them a bad look and walk away.
2026-02-06 23:16:16
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conozaa
My Darling Conor 🥰 :
Hello bestie 🥰 sending love and hugs from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 🫶🏻
2026-02-04 14:34:02
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aelingalathynius26
Jade :
walk away and when they ask where you are going say oh I thought we were done here
2026-02-04 14:59:54
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ardenraye
Energy Queen :
I let them finish and sit in silence until they acknowledge me then hit them with “well if you had let me finish speaking..” then explain whatever it was if they keep going i just walk away
2026-02-04 19:43:20
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classicallitcate
ClassicalLitCate :
“Can we put our listening ears on please?”
2026-02-11 23:12:59
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caddy127
Cathy A :
Look up Jefferson Fisher. That's what he does.
2026-02-08 16:30:20
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madisonmetheney_
madisonmetheney 🤍 | MAMA OF 3 :
Following bc me also. Drives me nuts, like can I please finish what I was saying before they start talking sh*t and I get angry 😳
2026-02-04 14:54:25
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paulab2024
Paula|Wifey|BoyMama :
Ma’am you simply speak with confidence and say “excuse me I am speaking please give me the opportunity to say my peace then you are more than welcome to give your side of things but right now I am speaking”❤
2026-02-04 19:18:58
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melissadarlingharvey
Melissa Darling Harv :
my daughter is soft spoken as well. I tell her to stop talking. then when they take a breath. say are you done so I can speak now since you had your turn.
2026-02-04 20:33:05
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jacy.momof4
jacy.momof4 :
I am very soft spoken also! And have the same issues. ❤️I totally understand what your saying
2026-02-04 19:16:37
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angelecorkern277
Angele Corkern277 :
sorry I'm just like u
2026-02-10 18:40:39
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erin.tollenaar
erin.tollenaar :
Same!
2026-03-12 21:24:30
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oliviabliving
Olivia :
Keep being feisty girl. It is so rude for people to not let someone speak and talk over them. I can’t stand it.
2026-02-04 20:37:23
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o54.k1m
o54.k1m :
morning 🙋🏻‍♀️
2026-02-04 14:28:57
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just_g10
❌ Just_G10 ❌ :
Just keep talking louder!!!!
2026-02-24 02:38:52
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stephanielf49
StephanieLF :
Don’t be aggressive, be assertive. When they are done with their thoughts that started in the middle of yours, look them straight in the eye “Done? Ok, now let me finish my thoughts”. They will remember that
2026-02-05 18:48:17
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lcottrill826
Lauren 🇺🇸 :
I am the problem. I am the one interrupting. I’m working on it. I don’t mean to. My brain just thinks I need to say it before I forget.
2026-02-10 23:48:58
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macrice87
MacRice87 :
Raise my hand 🤣
2026-02-05 23:27:38
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kautumnd
Kristy :
If they interrupt you when they are in the middle of their sentence just turn around while they are talking and walk away.. if they ask where you going just say “you don’t value my opinion enough to let me speak so I don’t wanna hear you speak”
2026-02-05 22:30:53
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kautumnd
Kristy :
Walk away lol that will get their attention
2026-02-05 22:27:23
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paulab2024
Paula|Wifey|BoyMama :
Will you please of a hair curling tutorial? I love your hair!!!❤
2026-02-04 19:16:49
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