This resonates so much. For years I’ve struggled to know who I am. I’ve spent so much money on trying to be like someone or be who someone said I was.
2026-02-06 21:31:00
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19lashby :
My problem is I technically don’t overspend but I spend more than I wish. It’s not on things people my age enjoy to so they often make me feel like I am impulsive and overspending
2026-02-07 03:39:53
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annaalyall :
Especially things like buying a car on finance, it’s really ruining our people 😭
2026-02-07 00:09:48
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boredmademoiselle :
I’m almost 40, if I could offer my biggest piece of advice it is this; try not to surround yourself with people who are shallow or vain. The more interaction you have with these types of people the more likely you’ll try to fit in or feel inferior. For example my friends are into art, gardening, cooking, and philanthropy… not shopping, driving fancy cars, plastic surgery etc.
2026-02-17 16:23:32
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mollydnailedit :
I’m connecting with your content so much. I like having my hair and nails done. Simple gold jewelry pieces. And wear mostly classic solids.
2026-03-02 13:00:16
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eliza_p00 :
You are stunning.
2026-02-08 18:28:06
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Hosanna Hali :
So true 😭 especially so many insecurities are pushed onto women
2026-02-07 08:45:02
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Ellen in France🇺🇲🇫🇷 :
As a woman retired, I read self help books and financial books and had ups and downs financially but it all paid off. I'm living a ood life in retirement and continue to be frugal in many ways so I can splurge on travel. Keep at it👏
2026-02-07 20:26:00
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freyamcalary :
This is amazing 🩷🩷
2026-03-29 21:39:47
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Voitonkehä 💫 :
Going from ”its a problem for future me” to ”its a GIFT for future me” is a huge shift in mindset and helps a lot to make better longterm decisions 😎👍🏻
2026-02-10 16:55:58
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Nibday :
i’m 40 and still can’t get over of my impulse buying 😭
2026-02-07 00:10:03
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Daphne de Baat :
It’s so, so true!
2026-02-07 18:39:47
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Bookgrl :
I know it’s not the point of the video but you’re beautiful btw ❤️
2026-02-15 10:36:39
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Eryu_suger :
You sounds so elegant you look so beautiful I believe everything you say ✨
2026-02-07 11:36:14
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Lara | Lifestyle Architect :
Love this. You respect yourself so much and it shows in every way♥️
2026-02-09 16:46:30
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Rachel | your 40-ish bestie ✨ :
I love this so much! Such wisdom 🥰
2026-02-08 10:30:47
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annaalyall :
I think this might be one of your best takes yet
2026-02-07 00:09:16
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thirdecade :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-29 09:30:30
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kay_gee_gee_ :
😁😁😁
2026-02-07 15:51:17
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Nibday :
i hope it hit me too😭
2026-02-07 00:08:57
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Ciara | curated wealth :
I really agree - You should want to please yourself 🥰. P.s. you couldn’t be ugly if you tired
2026-02-06 18:28:06
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thingspeaceloves :
So true, being self-assured and not needing consumption to feel good>>
2026-02-06 23:15:08
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piscesdelulu :
This was genuinely so insightful. Thank you ☺️
2026-02-06 22:55:37
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meowsworldnow :
power
2026-02-21 09:42:41
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Premium Grounding 🌍🧘🏽♂️ :
Great Advice! 👏
2026-03-04 06:31:18
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