Do not date, do not get married and do not have kids. Focus on yourself, your education and your career
2026-02-04 23:48:12
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Barrett 44❌ :
The wrong person man or woman will slow you down. The right person will help you get there faster. I have seen it go both ways
2026-02-04 21:42:45
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Naturally Brittany :
And save, invest and travel
2026-02-05 01:15:06
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certifiedlabialover :
graduated college at 21 & now I’m studying to apply to med school. I knew from a very young age that nobody was coming to save me!!!
2026-02-04 22:56:52
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ADMIRE_DIA :
DONT EVEN SMILE AT A MAN IN YOUR 20’s 🔥💯
2026-02-06 23:00:17
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Mz. Kesha :
Once you accomplish your goals at a young age, STAY AWAY from the guys who haven’t accomplished anything in life. They too will slow you down or derail what you’ve established. Please listen to us!
2026-02-05 17:11:35
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🌻🤎✨️ :
had my 1st at 17. I graduated with my bachelor's at 36 & bk in school for my masters at 39. take her advice!!!!
2026-02-05 04:28:43
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katarina :
And let’s normalize that marriage and children are NOT for everyone.
2026-02-05 14:28:51
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🐝BamBam👑 :
: As a mom who is playing catch up in my 30s. Listen to her . Get established as early as you can
2026-02-05 17:40:08
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Charity ♡ LCSW-QS :
FACTS!!! I went from HS straight to college, straight to grad school. I had my masters at 24, licensed by 27. I am in my career now in my 30s making $159k. I built my house 6 years ago. Vacation often. And my kids are living an AMAZING life right now!
2026-02-25 16:54:38
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sooodanny11 :
I graduated high school with 3.8 gpa two full scholarships while working. Met my spouse and got pregnant very young. I didn’t get my bachelors until I was 32. Which it’s nothing wrong with that. But imagine how much further I could have gotten had I just focused on me. Please listen
2026-02-04 22:18:16
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Kellz :
They don’t slow you down the derail you!
2026-02-05 19:43:27
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Ashley :
Yes. Things I'm telling my daughters. And as long as you are pursuing degrees baby, you can stay with mama as long as you need to!
2026-02-05 16:03:47
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Jay Jaay :
Don’t let anyone take you off your pivot , men don’t let anyone slow them down
2026-02-05 02:21:55
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GoldenAJ💙💛💚💛 :
Please listen! Do not live with a man or allow a man to live with you. Establish yourself first… get an education and a career, not just a job.
2026-02-05 20:36:43
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MrsNette :
I tell my 25yr old, them sajnin gone always ajnin, 18 - 80. You ain’t gone miss nathan so you might as well live & enjoy your life, learning & educating you.
2026-02-06 02:23:42
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lawren.xo :
100%
2026-02-05 00:47:34
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Living With Kay :
Agree
2026-02-04 15:28:06
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🙏🏾❤️ :
Very true , I am a RN at 20. Always been focused on school since young. Graduated hs at 17 . EDUCATION FIRST!
2026-02-05 03:21:17
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MzPanamaican🇵🇦♎️🇯🇲 :
First kid at 19…graduated college at 33. They slow u down girls! Get established first then focus on a family
2026-02-05 11:07:25
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Rebeca | AZ Esthetician :
Yup. Get your degree before you get married so you have something to stand on when sh** hits the fan.
2026-02-06 00:32:48
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Jp :
Doing it now at 37 wasted my 20s on a bs man never again
2026-02-05 16:37:47
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Staysomayso :
I remember a woman in church told me the exact same advice, because she was trying to get a GED in her 50s, but she was right. I almost 30 working on my masters. I feel like I should have done it sooner but its fine.
2026-02-04 18:34:12
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Michyrick :
I wish I had that advice before. Pregnant at 22. Bachelors at 44
2026-02-05 19:15:27
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