Nina B
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Cynthia :
I’ve also tried to date someone I was not into because “he’s a nice guy” and that blew up in my face
2026-02-05 21:09:03
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ncjess :
Noooo I tried it and wasted two years. The spark never comes no matter how hard you try.
2026-02-05 21:10:08
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Dagmara :
No, I have tried. You don’t even want to kiss them.
2026-02-07 10:50:33
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alexislilyanne :
Spark or no spark, they both don’t work out. Hope this helps
2026-02-06 23:12:25
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Justina | las vegas & dancin :
Dating a slow burn and I’m actually going insane
2026-02-06 08:42:09
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MJAB :
Spark = superficiality and anxiety. A genuine caring decent consistent person is awesome and been married to one 25 yrs 🥰
2026-02-05 07:15:42
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Hana :
No. Don’t. No spark isn’t an option. It feels like a cage
2026-02-06 11:53:12
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Christopher Moor3379 :
You have to be self aware enough to recognize where the spark is coming from
2026-02-06 02:55:19
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gab :
yeah but if there’s no spark you don’t even wanna kiss them 😫
2026-03-03 19:32:30
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carolinetje1 :
No. I did, and ended up hating him
2026-02-07 13:14:48
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Elle :
For me, if there’s no spark initially and I force it, I end up resenting the person and the time I wasted on someone who doesn’t excite me. They just annoy me.
2026-02-07 01:37:58
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Julia Kennedy291 :
Not necessary spark but there should be attraction.
2026-02-07 11:30:25
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Peezus :
I had 5 first dates fizzle because they “didn’t feel a spark” like yeah there’s no spark, we don’t know each other lol
2026-02-06 02:55:20
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blebleble.blebleble :
Nah, I did that, too. You feel extra silly when they do you dirty
2026-02-07 02:46:23
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Tatjana :
no. I tried. Giving a chance to a "nice guy". Turns out, he was one of the worst people I have ever met
2026-02-07 10:13:33
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Jln :
I was absolutely repulsed when they randomly decided to kiss me
2026-02-17 00:15:24
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S :
The bigger the spark the more toxic they are
2026-02-06 21:41:40
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Coach_Sofi :
the is a woman who said: don't look for fireworks, look for a fireplace
2026-02-07 13:48:43
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Tian :
I've heard the spark is just your nervous system picking up on familiar patterns and behavior. Hence why people get stuck in the same cycle all the time! Your brain wants familiar, even if it's toxic.
2026-02-05 22:53:49
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Nova936 :
I am trying right now. She checks like all the boxes but trying to get a spark still
2026-02-06 01:30:35
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CassandraLynn :
The spark is your nervous system saying “hey this is dangerous, be aware, have your guard up”. People always want the exciting love. But in reality love is boring, it’s calm, it’s clear, it shows up without question, it’s honest, and above all it CHOOSES US!! Look for a fireplace not a firework.
2026-02-07 13:51:10
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Jacqueline :
Nah it doesn’t work either
2026-02-06 19:24:26
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12345 :
Actually a spark could be a red flag💯
2026-02-05 22:33:57
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Shine On :
Good question. I tried once with someone I respect a lot. Nothing negative happened, but I learned I couldn’t force something like that.
2026-02-05 22:42:04
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Angel M :
It’s definitely the NO spark you want. I knew I was interested in my now husband but definitely not a spark at the beginning. I need to get to know you, feel safe and comfy before I get that spark!
2026-02-05 23:52:19
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