@thetrishlaw: Identify vs personality #fyp #lifecoach #traumatok

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hwegner7
Heidi :
Betrayal has made me want to stop being a people pleaser. My family believes me to now be cold. Where is a happy medium? I’m bitter but still want to be nice. Just lost.
2026-02-14 05:16:46
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cherished8888
Cheryl Udell🇨🇦 :
This!!! Can I add to what you are saying…my husband passed a month ago today. I didn’t realize how much my identity was tied to him. I went from wife to caregiver to now a widow. When he died so did some of my identity. I’m know longer a wife or caregiver. I don’t like being a widow I miss him very much, but I do realize my grief is many things and I’m standing in the threshold of growth and loss. I’m literally being forced into a new identity. I’m taking it one step and one day at a time. 💗
2026-02-10 10:53:27
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audreydagoat247
audreydagoat247 :
Omg where have you been my whole life 🥺
2026-02-27 02:00:28
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infamous_to_a_t
Infamous2aT :
Ive never seen your page before, but man I needed it. I’ve gone from Wife & Mom to widow, single mom, empty nester in the last 4 years. My identity has been lost so much in this period of time I’m exhausted! Not 💯 sure what my identity is today aside from a work in progress/under construction and conflict as I shed the old and step into the new. I can’t remember a time “I “ was my identity.
2026-02-19 17:08:18
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kingsmensministry
Sons of Seth :
I started watching your content around 18 months ago when I was in neurotic mess trying to figure out what in the holy hell was happening. After everything I’ve walked through, and everything God has shown me, I wouldn’t trade my journey for anything. I used to live in the “grip” of survival. I masked without knowing it. I played the victim without realizing it. Now I can see at times I was emotionally, physically, psychology, abused, and other times I played the role .. And yet, all of that pain eventually forced me inward. It pushed me to face myself, to see the beautiful soul God created, and to finally give myself the love I had always been searching for. Today, I pray for my abusers. Not out of denial, not to minimize the impact, but because I want them to feel what they did ..not to punish them, but so they can repent, heal, and be free from their own shame. People don’t project unless they’re drowning inside. That doesn’t make their actions right. It doesn’t lessen the impact. But it does help me understand the brokenness behind the behavior. We’re all just wounded kids wearing Halloween masks, trying to hide what’s going on internally. Some hide better than others. Some hurt others because they don’t know how to face their own pain. So I forgive myself. I forgive them. And I let God handle the judgment. That’s where real freedom lives. you are a blessing thank you.
2026-02-06 11:30:19
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rbf_kweeeen
RBF_Kweeeen :
F*ck. You popped up on my FYP on the exact same day I finally admit to myself that I need to let go of some long-held beliefs, and now I’m a hot mess. Growth sucks. But stagnation sucks more.
2026-03-14 14:55:15
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musicmadness1974
Crimson fire :
yes this is why I'm in ACA.
2026-02-18 11:26:35
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purple_lotus44
Purple_Lotus :
This just made me cry. I have had to adapt for survival for so long, now I am struggling to find myself again
2026-02-26 17:42:41
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kasiburkhart222
Kasi Burkhart :
Damn girl, this was awesome 👏🏼
2026-03-07 13:25:27
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rheecooper
Rhiannon Sukol Nusesq Cooper :
This is fascinating to me I would have totally thought it would be the other way around. Meaning identity more fixed and personality ever changing. Love this video.
2026-02-07 01:22:35
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cathie2727
cathie2727 :
Thank goodness for you!
2026-02-20 15:12:42
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reginaorsi5
reginaorsi5 :
As a therapist ...I am really grateful 🙏thankyou for all the work you bless us with 🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-02-06 06:57:09
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momma1221
user6667323219944 :
omg I think I need a life coach, like right now 🤣. I feel like I'm in the wrong life/career/me
2026-04-02 01:22:16
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ruby.babykimchi
Ruby♡ Baby KimChi☆ :
I wish I would have found your content sooner. thank you!
2026-03-30 12:14:53
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tgoh358
The Gift Of Healing :
This exactly were Im at in my life right now enough is enough. I choose me!!
2026-04-03 21:12:32
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twin23950
Twin :
Oohwee… appreciate you for this!✌🏻🤟🏻🤙🏻
2026-03-12 09:50:21
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sloeasy29
sloeasy29 :
Thank you 🙏
2026-03-07 16:52:03
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lynnclarke115
lynnclarke115 :
Wow!!!💕
2026-03-07 15:58:51
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camiladominguez436
Camila Dominguez :
You explained what im going through and explained it in words i have tried to explain to myself and have struggled to put it in perspective. Thank u
2026-03-11 07:07:39
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lauram4733
lauram4733 :
LOVE all of this 💜
2026-02-06 20:17:07
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antoinette.diaz
Antoinette Diaz :
I am so thankful I found you ❤️
2026-02-06 07:46:16
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karney___
Karney :
ok, hear me out... let's reconsider the analogy that parts of us 💀 off as we evolve.. For me that part is brought in with gratitude for getting us this far... genX retirement home styled "here's your 'paddock' sit back relax, we've got you now".. always finished with a cheeky "keep the popcorn close - enjoy the show" 🤭🙃 not 💀, celebrated permanent yet welcomed retirement with an "integration party". Trish, Thank YOU for ALL your content, you are appreciated 💛
2026-02-06 12:38:42
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kristinaasher02
Mama K :
so the loss of a child can bring on this shift and it's normal, as part of the healing?
2026-02-07 00:05:37
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julie.dutra_.realtor
JULIE DUTRA | REALTOR :
I REALLY needed to hear this. Do you offer one on one counseling?
2026-02-18 10:01:21
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08butterflies
Christine :
Trish….. THANK YOU! Your words were music to my soul today. I will “noodle” your words. WOW! You spoke to me today. 🖤
2026-02-15 05:10:34
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