@bayavoce: If your boundary only works when they change, it's not a boundary. Ask yourself this. Does this still work if they don't do what I want? If the answer is no, you're not setting a boundary, you're applying pressure and calling it protection. Real boundaries don't require compliance. They require you to move. I'm stepping away from this conversation. I'm making my own plans. I'm changing how I engage. Pressure sounds like if you loved me you'd stop and then you withhold closeness until they fall in line. That's manipulation with better language. The shift is simple but hard. Stop waiting for them to change so you can feel safe. Move yourself to safety and let them decide what they do with that. #relationships #boundaries #communication

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