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Forthequeen :

Clav is truth

banaantj1 :

To :

They are just talking about famous comedians and actors not regular funny guys

libertarian idealist 🇨🇦 :

people have made tinder accounts with fake profiles using pictures of good looking guys and put in their bio that they have a domestic charge. the ladies did not care that he was an abuser just that he was good looking. so I really doubt the first clip

r1veRRRRRRR :

I feel like attractiveness has the biggest effect in the very beginning. it's your foot in the door. it's what buys you time and attention to even demonstrate those other qualities in the first place.

ketam33 :

it all comes back to this

Thefossilguy :

In my experience charisma doesn’t get you romantic interest but it does get you social interest. People want to be around you but not with you, if that makes sense.

Boise1789 :

Nightclub is arguably the worst example

Silent Moon :

as the ugly friend, my 20s sucked, my 30s sucked we'd go out, and they would get anybody they wanted, me I got insulted

Jens Pedersen :

Attractive people get percieved as funnier and more charismatic naturally via the halo effect

beccahunt17_ :

This reminds me of when david dobrik put jeffs picture on a dating app and arranged a date with a girl bit then had his other “less attractive” friend go on the date instead and then after a while leg the girl pick if she wanted to continue the date with the first guy or start over with jeff and she immediately picked jeff

Frenchwithelise :

nightclubs is not the place for talking..

Øyvind (:( :

ye but thats on the nightclub. not a level playing field. put them in a more social situation. a few people at a party or something

laura_jane_spain :

Genuinely begging where is that shirt from? I don’t think I’ve seen a a shirt that calls to me more

🎀 :

That’s true, but I think you’re talking about first impressions. Usually once you spend more time talking to someone, your perception of them can change.

Aaaa :

I could be imagining it but the two of you look alike in a way. Same facial features and facial bone structure.

🦄🪽 :

This is first impressions, they are talking about long relationships

problematicpolarbear :

its an AND requirement not "or"

Muffin :

I can learn how to be funny and charismatic I can't learn how to be attractive

logicaldatingreactions :

very happy to see you still on here sharing your opinions

BkLovah :

without initial attraction, you don't get a chance to demonstrate your good qualities. with Pretty Privilege, you often get a pass for not having those qualities at all

DJVineland :

yea, not looking for the hottest girl. looking for the girl i vibe with

BeatboxBandit :

I describe attractiveness like a club vs a dingy bar, the club looks amazing from the outside and when you get in everything sucks then it’s the opposite with the bar looks awful outside but it’s a vibe

na :

well not in a nightclub obviously 🙄 or were they talking about that environment specifically?