@user5934260036252: We would have kept him at home except for he kept locking himself outside in the winter and kept getting up at night and would urinate all over the house. The stress of him being without my mom led to him having a stroke and he died after only a few months being there. RIP dad ❤️🙏 😪 #dragpath #grief #death #missyou #loveyou #trending #foryoupage #fyp

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clare88313
clare 🤍 :
The nursing home we placed my dad with Alzheimer’s in closed the very next day for Covid. I never saw him again 😭 I pray he knows we didn’t abandon him there.
2026-02-07 06:50:08
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rhajel
rhajel :
Anyone who doesn’t understand why they would make this decision please feel blessed that you have yet to be put in a situation where you’d have to make this decision.
2026-02-07 13:37:22
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alarmdog
AlarmDog :
My dad told me he doesn't want to go to a nursing home last night. I said, "No chance, Dad." He's been in it for seven years.
2026-03-04 21:44:24
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nikki_paas_
Nikki :
I work at a nursing home. They become family to us.
2026-02-07 18:15:21
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wilmis._.pilmis
☆ Wilmis☆ :
People in these comments not understanding that people who suffer from Alzheimer’s need 24/7 care is my 13th reason
2026-02-08 13:40:59
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stanldlsvhi
Stkdifnrls :
Jesus, these comments. These people have NO experience with dementia. I’m so sorry.
2026-02-08 10:31:58
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sarahrad5
*sarah* :
We had to do this to my dad. When we go visit him he always tries to go with us. It hurts every time
2026-02-07 15:53:54
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rjay0218
WingsToFly🍉 :
my grandma had dementia and the only thing keeping her grounded to reality was her Jack Russell terrier named Scooby. My mom searched for housing that allowed dogs and that helped get her settled, but when Scooby passed she deteriorated so fast 😔
2026-02-07 11:18:37
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sinkinqs
Cloud.png :
I need everyone to look at this picture and realize that untrained family members are physically and mentally not capable of caring for someone with Alzheimer’s when it becomes too severe.
2026-02-09 05:26:19
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newborah0
borah :
nursing homes arnt bad it's the lack of visitors helping that makes them worse. we have a flawed system everyone knows this but those who are capable choose not to come and help.
2026-02-07 19:23:40
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magsie40
magsie💁🏻‍♀️ :
I used to judge people who put their families in long term care, until I needed to make that terrible decision. I’m sorry.
2026-02-06 23:52:51
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thelovelychandra
thelovelychandra :
I promise you he forgives you. As a caregiver I am so sorry.
2026-02-07 18:17:31
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engshin
engshin :
People would never understand until they themselves experienced doing geriatic care.
2026-02-08 11:20:01
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catbaloo2010
Cathi L🇨🇦 :
dementia is such a cruel disease...I'm so sorry, this must have been so hard
2026-02-08 13:01:19
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sleepwalkster
b :
people saying this is mean or sad clearly do not have (grand)parents who just cannot safely live any place else anymore, nursing homes exist for a reason
2026-02-08 12:01:02
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learnwithme88
Living :
Life can be cruel… I’m sorry. Sending love.
2026-02-08 14:17:47
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covertchic
Hi Im Hay🤍 :
as somwone who has worked in the dementia and alzheimers field for over 10 years, I know it hurts, for everyone, including staff. we understand and we love them like family💜
2026-07-11 13:58:50
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pintpam
P :
I didn't have my children so they could waste they're lives looking after me. I have made it very clear when I am older if I can't care for myself, that I go into a home. I want my kids to have an amazing life.
2026-02-08 11:56:17
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mackeyymac
mackenzie🤍 :
“waiting for his food” stop i didn’t plan on crying today. this just broke my heart. please tell me you brought him SOMETHING to make him think it was his food 🥺
2026-02-08 18:49:05
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charlotte_21212
Charl :
As someome who has worked in many memory care facilities, these comments disgust me. Patients with dementia lose the ability to eat, to go to the restroom, to get dressed, they can't recognize themselves in the mirror. They wander off and get lost, they put themselves in danger. I work in a place where we need to keep all memory care residents behind locked doors with a code, or they'd try and escape and get hurt. We cant give them forks or knives, they get angry, have hallucinations. How can a family member without training care for them properly? I work 8 hours a day doing this, I couldn't do it 24/7 and not get paid, and have no income
2026-02-09 05:54:35
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cherryvamp73
cherryvamp73 :
The absolute worst feeling in the world, walking away from them in the home. I remember grandma begging to come home every single visit and it crushed me. 😔
2026-02-07 21:45:22
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friendswithduncandoodle
Friend :
When we did this with my grandma she asked the “waiter” for a glass of chardonnay
2026-02-09 02:46:56
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bestfriendsforfrosting
BestFriendsForFrosting :
I would be crying myself to sleep every night until who knows 😢 💔
2026-02-07 00:58:53
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ifitbleeds
jacy :
My great grandma. Unfortunately covid hit and I never got to see her again in the nursing home before she passed. I hope she thinks of me 🫶🏼
2026-02-09 03:33:55
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toadbread
toadbread :
this is deadass one of my biggest fears in life. getting dementia and being thrown into a home where my family slowly forgets about me as im trapped in a prison of my own mind until my feeble body gives out
2026-02-07 16:14:04
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