@stevening_mft: When people feel powerless, they often blame others instead of naming what they truly need. Growth starts by owning the problem and choosing connection over resentment. Follow to learn more. #HealingJourney #selfawareness #emotionalintelligence #relationshipadvice #MentalHealth
the patriarchy doesn't teach boys to be men; it forces them to PROVE they're not women for the rest of their lives. 😞
2026-02-08 14:25:39
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Matt :
“Where did that start for you?” is such a great question.
2026-02-08 05:10:49
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iliftwhileyousleep :
YOU CANNOT REHABILITATE ABUSERS.
2026-02-08 03:50:11
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🌷🪻🌸Dragonfly Goddess🌸🪻🌷 :
Not a single man walks this earth who was not born of a woman, yet they speak of her as lesser — forgetting their first breath came from her pain.
2026-02-08 14:46:51
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Trollgrandma :
Patriarchy HURTS EVERYONE.
2026-02-07 23:42:44
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Kiley :
I’ve unfortunately never met a man who was interested enough in self-reflection or solving the problem to even listen to this whole video.
2026-02-07 21:22:30
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Kelly :
He knows - he just doesn’t want to be held accountable
2026-02-08 14:17:59
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lisamcdonald052 :
I mean it’s literally his own fault he’s not getting “connection”.
2026-02-08 02:32:11
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melanie😊 :
Someone, somewhere DESIGNED that shirt. Then Someone, somewhere PRINTED that shirt.Then Someone, somewhere, DISTRIBUTED that shirt. Then Someone, somewhere, SOLD that shirt. THAT is very worrying 😟
2026-02-09 07:44:19
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babboabo :
As a woman - every man you reach saves us too. Thank you. ❤️
2026-02-07 23:26:09
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ASlutforSubarus :
Some people’s greatest contribution to earth is when they leave it
2026-02-08 01:02:17
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LKP :
“Where did that start for you” is a beautiful question WOW
2026-02-08 15:47:39
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leanmeanlaurajean :
Once upon a time he heard the word “No”.
2026-02-08 13:51:25
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Shari Kikam :
“When did that start for you?” Is always my question when it comes to adults who have such negative behavior because we were all once innocent children.
2026-02-08 02:13:06
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Knotty Broad :
This is why you’re leading this group and not me. I don’t have the ability to hold space for this behavior
2026-02-08 15:30:22
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Polishirishmomma :
My dad is 100% responsible. And wants to know why no one loves him
2026-02-08 00:14:20
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DNutt :
This is a clear form of how white Men can stand up and initiate change toward women. Thank you.
2026-02-08 15:45:35
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user9307236044069 :
THIS !! MEN CONFRONTING MEN 💪🏽. Thank you Steven and please keep up this essential work 🙏🏼
2026-02-08 20:45:53
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fightforfreedoms :
Patriarchy does this
2026-02-08 07:51:54
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She :
It's very interesting to me that an individual has a very specific way of thinking, but when asked why, they have no idea how to answer.
2026-02-08 13:43:39
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BDR529 :
THANK YOU for being a man who talks to men about this stuff.
2026-02-08 04:54:34
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Inari :
I find it sad that abusers will get more help after then the dv survivors
2026-02-08 23:48:40
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alone_thyme :
I’m sad to see that there aren’t many men in these comments. Thank you for being a man who challenges others men in this way
2026-02-08 00:48:56
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nnoper_son :
idk why this showed up on my fyp, needs to be seen by more men
2026-02-07 23:07:47
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kamcdv :
Misogyny is an ideology. Not all scared little boys with bad fathers turned into abusers. I agree it’s important to understand this but I worry that we give men too much grace when we find out they were hurt as children. It’s why many women stay because they hope they can heal them.
2026-02-08 13:57:52
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