@shamelesslyshelly: I’m genuinely happier as a single, child-free 32 year old woman compared to how I felt in my 20s. Don’t let society convince you that you’re somehow doing life wrong if you aren’t getting married or having kids at the same time as most of your friends! #relationshipadviceforwomen #datingadvice #bigsisteradvice #30sclub #childfreebychoice

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evenetherr
evenetherr :
Yes but everyone has emotional baggage by time they reach their 30s 😔
2026-02-07 22:28:10
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ryannagain
ryann :
Most women in relationships with men either got lucky and/or settled. HEAVY on the “settle”.
2026-02-08 14:58:12
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kaylam.3
Kayla :
I can honestly say I’m with the person I’m meant to be with - we met before I was even thinking about marriage - but we don’t have kids yet. I’m 30. Sometimes we can’t help the cards we’re dealt with, and we agree we’d rather bring them into an environment where we’re mentally and financially stable than rush to meet arbitrary deadlines.
2026-02-07 23:16:03
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cthula
Cthula :
my question is how are they either such a good actor or finding people who wanna be settled for? cuz I def see couples in the grocery store who interact like they've never met, but when I have a guy I'm dating and like we're best friends and just, theres no romance no matter how hard we try, I'm like "yeah this is good, some people dont even get this" ans theyre like "no, I'm leaving, I want romantic love, im not marrying for platonic love" so like, settling doesn't even work
2026-02-08 20:09:06
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hopefaithlovex3
hopefaithlovex3 :
my experience, for everyone who is going to come at me. but my friends are allllll settling. they look happy on IG, with their perfect wedding photos and pregnancy announcements.....and then i get them alone at dinner and they tell me they hate their lives and wish they were single.
2026-03-06 01:18:36
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unkwn_1k
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I have a question can u answer my dm please I need help
2026-02-07 23:03:12
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