Ferns ✝️
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yoyokyahb22 :
If they didn’t like you and they stayed they are 100% the problem. Who cares what the diagnosis is
2026-02-08 23:22:25
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JaxerB🤪 :
Here’s my situation. Dated a girl didn’t work out. Got back together everything was perfect talking about building a life together. 3 months later dropped me like I was nothing. She chased me for two years. I figured wow she really wants me. Got back together. Talked about building a life together again. 3 months later I’m in the same position. What the hell?!?
2026-02-08 10:33:37
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cvbackup :
This is so real! Ive been on both sides the chaser and avoidant. Both positions are wack and both positions come from immaturity and a wounded place. No of identity in Christ just identity in self and self / the heart “is deceitful above all things, who can know it?” … so we THINK were doing things unto God /dating unto God but irl were trying to path up the wounds with the pieces of someones heart or trying to get our delusions or needs met by projecting and chasing someone 🥲 this is why Ive found the Jesus-centered single season to be sooooo valuable 🙏 it allows space for us to know Jesus : thats #1 relationship above all and #2 allows space for him to do what only he can do: bring life and life in abundance , heal, restore, convict, correct and set you free.
2026-02-08 17:02:54
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koomby :
According to social media everyone is avoidant or narcissistic. And, that if someone left them it’s because they “loved them and got scared”. When, in reality, none of that is true and they just weren’t really into you.
2026-02-09 23:57:28
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Ughhh :
This narrative can be very dangerous. It’s most likely they were avoidant. We shouldn’t traumatize these victims even more. Their partner already gaslit them. Let’s not make them doubt their reality too. Some people are chasing people who don’t want them. But avoidants chase you, rope you in, ignite hope. Let’s not invalidate that
2026-03-03 20:43:56
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Jessica Loya :
Ahh I’m married to an avoidant 😭
2026-02-08 05:07:40
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Trips :
This is actually amazing
2026-04-02 12:39:06
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To the people who love history :
When he said he hated me after 10 years and me paying for everything. like 🤨
2026-02-08 23:50:15
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Blair Jerrams :
Yeah a healed avoidant can go the distance, am unhealed avoidant, just walk way. A lot of avoidant people don’t even realise they are dysfunctional.
2026-02-09 04:39:40
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axel :
thanks bro now i’m crying more 🔥
2026-02-09 23:32:36
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Lo :
This is so true. Sometimes we protect ourselves from painful truths that hurt us in the long run. I pray that I can heal from these situations so I can someday have a healthy relationship.
2026-02-09 00:28:33
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Holly🌵💪🎀 :
I was a priority. He hung out with me all the time. He planned future. Super close to his family. . He was sooo avoidant .. but he taught me self esteem and my worth and now I feel free and happy.
2026-02-23 22:12:56
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Lawnah041551 :
We went to church together last weekend but ya, I feel this
2026-02-09 01:33:18
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⋆｡˚꒰ঌ prιɴcεѕѕ cεcε ໒꒱˚｡⋆ :
same and Jesus is slowly helping with my avoidant nature
2026-04-02 20:29:54
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Purplerose311 :
Or they bored!
2026-02-09 00:01:14
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Hurry up :
why is my life like this
2026-02-08 09:22:22
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SimpleBlessed :
Thanks
2026-03-20 16:33:08
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Guerita :
The way I see it …. Even if it was an avoidant they still didn’t like them and still didn’t choose them.
2026-03-23 20:15:32
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justalittledeer :
Oh yeah? If they just don't like you that much much, why did they say it even that day? Every day? Does it make them better to have used me as an an emotional support object
2026-02-12 22:44:43
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😇 Daily Bread 🙏 :
💪💪💪
2026-03-22 17:26:20
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Ky :
Idk it’s like when we got closer, some intimacy happens like deep talks, cuddles, words of affirmation/reassurance. And then distance. I try to voice my feelings/hurt and boom blown up. I only got anxious in the end of it and blame was put on me. I wonder if it was avoidance or just not real
2026-02-09 23:07:11
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KD's Justice :
sometimes it's from years of gaslighting & abuse where the person believes the opposite of what is..I guess that why the Bible will tell you if you're single stay single. Try not to see it as a punishment but rather time to let it go, keep laying it down at Jesus feet so he can take it off your shoulders each time it even replays in your mind so you can finally leave it behind you..it's a process that doesn't need to be rushed.
2026-02-09 20:44:46
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