@itsmethejb: We’ve all got a cross to bear, don’t let social media trick you. This is the rawest video I’ve ever uploaded and not because I’m looking for sympathy but simply because I think it’s time I share something about me beyond the chair! #trauma #therapytiktok #therapy #therapytok #fyp

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kirsttheartist
kirst :
Her face lit up so much when you so gently and softly complimented her ✨ so lovely
2026-02-08 19:16:47
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itscazzyp
CazzyP :
I think as hairdressers we often underestimate the influence we have on our clients, and them on us
2026-02-08 22:33:03
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jsaraaa1
Jazmin Chan :
James, this was so beautiful to watch as a Psychologist. Can I say though that you sound so self aware of things that you feel need improvement but it sounds like you put a lot of pressure on yourself to try figure out what the fix is. Seeing the right psychologist can take the guess work out of it and could be helpful. Apologies in advance if you already have support like this. Once again, beautiful video✨
2026-02-08 20:13:02
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missynatalina
bbnatalina :
Hold onto this beautiful woman, the way she listens and sees you entirely is so special. Thank you for being so raw and open darling xxx
2026-02-08 19:10:48
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inkedgrl90
Hayley Michelle :
Oh james your amazing and making me cry x
2026-02-09 00:46:13
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documentwithmi
Mimi :
The way you are my therapist and make my hair appointment so exciting and enjoyable every time ❤️
2026-02-08 09:54:46
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eleanoredwards52
elle :
being vulnerable and having a safe space to share really helps that demon ❤️youd be suprised how many people feel the same way! xxx
2026-02-08 20:48:01
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taylajademcewan
taylajademcewan :
James the light you have SHINES.. even through a phone screen. Thank you for sharing that with all of us ✨
2026-02-09 00:16:08
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alexandrafargo
Alexandra :
Can u believe the $200 gift card. When someone brought so much money in. That is criminal
2026-02-09 12:04:49
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prettypointersnails
PRETTYPOINTERSNAILS :
This is such a strong message to find a safe space to share your feelings and it’s ok to not be ok! In the industry of hair and beauty where we have clientele who confide in us daily, it’s so important to have a healthy relationship with our own mental health because it can catch up really quickly. 🫶🏻 xo Thankyou for sharing
2026-02-08 10:56:58
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___6onesix
__6one6 :
The hyper awareness to self actions, emotions, noisy brain, trauma - babe have you been assessed for ADHD? I was so similar, then diagnosed and medicated and it has helped so much. Not a fix, more an explanation and a tool to help 💛
2026-02-08 23:41:52
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dirtyhippiefox
DirtyHippieFox :
hairdressers are way more than just hairdressers ❤️bless her for giving you a safe and supportive space
2026-02-10 04:38:14
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hydeandsleek
Sarah Hyde :
Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable 🥺
2026-02-08 10:10:16
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tayyahn92
Tay92 :
I think it’s important that we are more grateful for our hairdressers because they do more than hair. They listen to us and some of them even really feel our pain. It’s important to remember that and I’m glad you get to have that with someone you trust. It’s rare to find. I still haven’t found a person that I can trust enough to be able to speak about me or my stuff. So it’s lovely to see the rawness. I wish I had the chance to have gotten to know you more when I was a client. You probably don’t remember me at all but I was very fond of you, I still am 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
2026-02-08 11:28:02
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anon2384
anon23 :
This is such Capricorn energy, so relatable, and this year so far James, has been such a purge for us capricorns, like all of our shit is surfacing because our next level is coming, so we are being forced to look inward, sending you the most love, we will make it through 2026, we are the most self aware people, because believe it or not, most people aren’t even aware of how they are, but capricorns, we are so aware of how we are and we take the steps when we feel the time is right to correct our path, we never ever have malicious intentions behind our actions, we are just straight to the point and expect loyalty back and hope to find people who can mirror our standards and often people fall short, but I think that’s also something as we grow we will find how to navigate that correctly
2026-02-08 13:23:44
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madeleinelucente
Maddii :
wow I loved every bit of this video. very emotional. what an incredible human you are. its okay to be just you and your husband against the world ❤️
2026-02-08 13:18:18
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laurengumz
Lauren 📚📖🇦🇺 :
My husband taught me as I’m a giver , give and have no expectations and then you can’t get hurt 🖤
2026-02-09 03:37:02
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documentwithmi
Mimi :
Proud of you for sharing this
2026-02-08 09:54:52
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elyssaharttt
Elyssa’s digital diary 🧚‍♀️✨ :
Not even halfway through the video and I immediately followed. Your energy radiates so beautifully 💞
2026-02-09 06:29:49
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andreaboughaida
Andreandreandrea :
You done my hair once, when i was pregnant, I felt so gross and unhappy with my image due to putting on weight whilst carrying bub. You made me feel beautiful and happy about myself with only a few words. You may not remember me but I remember you and the impact you had on me 🩵 never forget how important you are and that incredible impact you’ve made on not only me but guaranteed every person that’s had the privilege of sitting in your chair.
2026-02-13 02:11:31
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deanna_cee
Deanna | Digitally Influenced :
James, highly recommend kinesiology. I was in same mental space as u, I still am but kinesiology feels like it’s pulls the bad energy fo us to move with more clarity xxxxx
2026-02-08 21:18:13
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bohemianvibes4u
.B.Vibin4U :
I love you thanks for sharing this 🙏
2026-02-08 21:10:03
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larykinsmumma
user6395768877249 :
Im pregnant and crying. Bless you both 😭
2026-03-13 23:13:39
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deanna0404
Deanna Besant :
Oh James 🥺
2026-02-08 13:43:30
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kyleen_jean
Ky :
Oh James. You’re so beautiful. I’ve loved watching you for years. You’re so lovely and you have a great sense of humour. 🥰🥰🥰
2026-02-09 07:08:25
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