@anonym62992: I mean people of other nationalities, when I tell them. And stop justifying this, because I don’t care what you say. it’s still wrong. 1. The bride’s parents do not attend the wedding. 2. During the celebration, the groom is not allowed to be seen by the relatives, especially older men. The custom of avoidance is a tribute to Chechen traditions: in public, a husband and wife cannot openly show their feelings. That’s why a separate table is set for the groom and his friends in another room. 3. The situation is different for the bride. Among Chechens, a wedding is called “zuda guchuyakkhar”, which literally means “to show the bride.” During the wedding, she stands in a designated place — on a small podium decorated with flowers. Anyone can openly look at her and take photos with her. The most the bride herself is allowed to do is remain silent and smile modestly. Only the ritual of “untying the tongue” gives her the right to speak. This ritual is performed by men: they ask the bride for water and permission to drink it. She says only one word: “Drink.” The guest drinks the water and, returning the empty glass, gives her money. After that, the bride is allowed to talk to those who “untied” her tongue. All the money collected during this ritual must be given by the daughter-in-law to her mother-in-law. 4. Visits to her parents The young wife is not allowed to visit her parental home until “official” visits there are made by her new relatives. #noxchi #feminism #ihatebasicpeople #chechengirl #chechnya

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