Steven Ing, MFT
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Sunday 08 February 2026 21:31:22 GMT
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L.M. :
I think we all have to ask ourselves, “Am I fun to be around? Would I enjoy being with me?”
2026-02-09 06:57:00
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Alex🪐 :
They haven’t realized they’re also victims of patriarchy and capitalism
2026-02-10 21:53:39
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Heather 🇨🇦 :
it’s all about inability to take ACCOUNTABILITY
2026-02-09 08:28:04
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Leandra | The Rebel Mystic 🔮 :
They want the woman to "fix" their life and make it worth living. It's sad.
2026-02-10 11:42:23
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MeeganLeCompteRidley :
Love the part where you said “I become their temporary friend “ I try this with males and try to get them to learn to be actual platonic friends with us women
2026-02-08 23:27:27
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Liliana :
Can you do that with Nick Fuentes please lol
2026-02-09 20:23:29
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Woodenbiker2 :
men repairing and holding other men accountable is exactly what the world needs
2026-02-09 15:59:03
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Christopher :
You have the right to be upset and miserable if your life lacks intimacy, romance, love and human connection.
2026-02-16 20:26:18
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chudcel :
im funny and charismatic and I make friends fast, I also have a new friends group that I made last year yet not a single woman is romantically interested in me, explain that
2026-02-16 20:39:54
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Jordan The Grey :
They blame everyone else for their own failures.
2026-02-09 20:01:15
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deniellaayala :
men supporting men 😁 love to see it. yall don't need a woman you need a friend
2026-02-09 10:02:43
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DCHasBones :
I have asked them this and they are always stumped. “Would YOU want to be with you? Would YOU like a partner to treat you the way you treat others? Are YOU happy and loving and have anything to offer but misery? No, no and no? Then you can see why you are alone, yes?”
2026-02-09 17:12:21
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jay ᯤ 𓈆 1% :
Chronic anger is such a great way to put it.
2026-02-09 18:56:15
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jbinga606 :
This is what masculinity is about: regulated emotion and a sense of humility. They was your phrases disarm the anger and reveal the fear and shame, that is the key to honest conversation so men (and women) can build up young men to be better
2026-02-09 02:47:54
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AKAPernilla :
I hope men finds this video
2026-02-16 11:40:48
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Candace Frisbie :
I got made fun of for quoting movies, playing video games, and liking fashion. I also found people who love me for those same things. Learning to deal with rejection is an important lesson that men aren't taught. one person poopoos their interests and they assume everyone will
2026-02-09 23:55:16
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ToyotaRolla90 :
Misery is a parasite that needs a host💯
2026-02-18 18:06:37
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Literally your neighbor :
Genuinely, like if you dont enjoy your OWN life why would someone else want to join it?
2026-02-09 20:21:23
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Alexandra :
I divorced a man like that. Best decision ever
2026-02-16 16:02:48
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user3703302497512 :
This is the difference between a good therapist and a friend. A therapist can hold you accountable without shaming, and without needing you to like them or be happy with them.
2026-02-09 14:48:56
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jennifer ⚔️ :
I cut men’s hair and this is exactly how I feel sometimes having hard convos with men. Thanks for sharing.
2026-02-11 04:50:44
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stpetemike :
People are rarely ready to do the shadow work
2026-02-09 09:48:18
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Elutrixx :
I'd love to ask a question as someone who at least had to do the "stop hating women for your own mistakes" part by himself: How do I start living? I can see now that, yes why would a woman a man or anyone else want to share the life that I have built for myself. I am a recluse, barely go outside and only game and watch TV. That is not their fault, it's mine. But at the same time I am... content? Maybe even happy with my life on 90/100 days. I am even certain that now after years of working on myself there would be women out there that would engage with me maybe even like me. But how would I meet them? I cannot really go to a bar because I personally don't enjoy it but even more a potential partner that would like me wouldn't be at a bar. So how would I meet someone? Is online dating really the only way? And yes I know that I can always try to change and become more of an outdoors person but that takes a lot of time, I've been on this journey ever since I moved out at 17. I am 25 now I feel like time is running out
2026-02-16 16:29:53
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Chisholm :
Question. If that man had FREE unfettered access to women’s bodies and labor, would he be angry and resentful?
2026-02-09 13:37:03
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ciggycam :
Do you believe a woman could have the same conversation? I battle with the belief that men in this headspace can be helped by women in any way, despite their persistent pleas that women are responsible for alleviating their struggle. They don’t listen to or believe us. Their ears don’t hear us.
2026-02-12 03:42:49
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