@blondiealicelou: I love dating older guys: I enjoy dating guys over 45, which really surprised me at first. It’s not about comparison obviously, just sharing what I’ve experienced: 1. They communicate so well. Hardly any games, no confusion, or childishness. It makes me feel safe to be vulnerable with them, which before used to be hard for me 2. They actually are interested in me and ask questions about my likes/dislikes and just what I’ve been up to. It’s so nice to feel cared for and listened to 3. There is no bad vibes or feeling like I have someone ‘competing’ with me. He supports my work and business and loves to hype me up. I’m not saying it is better or worse but it just works better for me and I really enjoy it. Feeling supported and loved without having to shrink myself and personality is so amazing.