Couples Therapy
Region: US
Monday 09 February 2026 15:40:10 GMT
1931893
129219
1829
8720
Music
Download
Comments
Eye-yoh-koh :
Weaponized incompetence/weaponized hesitation/weaponized indecision
2026-02-09 15:54:25
48766
Gardenbae4lyfe :
this isn't about the color, she wants him to make decisions when it comes to taking something off her plate for relief.
2026-02-09 20:28:02
50067
Tammy Davis :
He wouldn’t choose a color because then he couldn’t claim to not know his color later on
2026-02-09 16:58:04
60727
cyno :
Gf, just pick a lawyer - I’m exhausted for you
2026-02-09 23:57:27
14522
🩷Emily⸆⸉🩷 :
“Its hard to choose between green and purple” okay well how about coordinating the whole families schedule and making sure there are no conflicts?
2026-02-09 17:02:49
22631
Holly :
He exhausted me in the 20 secs of this video. Can’t imagine 24/7
2026-02-09 22:36:06
38707
Tanya :
she is trying to get him to be involved in the running of their family and he is saying no thanks I dont care.
2026-02-09 19:21:10
6625
Wayfarer :
Would he behave like this at work? No.
2026-02-10 13:29:52
6650
britgirlinspain :
EXACTLY he is shifting the EMOTIONAL LABOUR ON TO HER
2026-02-09 22:44:57
3214
Bee 🐝 :
ITS SO HARD TO PICK A COLOR I NEED A MOMENT 😭😭😭😭
2026-02-09 19:17:05
2028
Nic :
But the kids could pick a color without needing a moment. Okay
2026-02-09 17:44:45
4439
RENÉE MAKO :
I get it. They are too dependent on us
2026-02-09 15:50:03
1215
B👁️tch :
If she chose a color for him, he’d complain about the color she picked and use that as a reason to not participate in the calendar. It doesn’t matter if you include them or not. If they don’t want to participate they won’t. They think it’s optional. They want a family but won’t be an active member.
2026-02-09 18:44:39
821
Mabel Salazar 🔮✨🫶🏼🧚♀️💗 :
I feel her frustration.. this is why women are so tired
2026-02-09 17:43:45
6154
Dayna 🇨🇦 :
It's lack of participation and engagement
2026-02-09 19:30:33
4329
Linds :
Because he didn’t want to be held accountable.
2026-02-09 18:54:42
5648
✨⭐Swil🌜⭐ :
The appropriate reaction from a partner in a healthy relationship would be showing appreciation for the initiative she took and happily participating.
2026-02-09 19:28:13
299
Julia S 🇪🇺 :
She’s laughing because otherwise she would be screaming
2026-02-10 06:23:56
144
probably asleep :
the way he is sitting tells me everything
2026-02-09 22:31:51
231
Throwaway 221 :
Ask, would he do this at work with his colleagues? If no, then he is playing a control game. Stop playing the game. He will always change the rules.
2026-02-09 18:06:46
1178
Zemporium :
he wants her to carry ALL the mental load even the silly stuff 😂
2026-02-09 18:21:23
458
Vee.money :
If he is at work and someone said "Hey Josh, we are implementing a new system, pick a colour for the spreadsheet" I wonder how he might respond differently...
2026-02-09 21:30:09
13588
Michaele | DC Creator :
Needed a moment after picking a color? 😳
2026-02-10 06:55:05
3418
Leila :
it seems small but if he picks the colour he remembers what he's responsible for, if she picks it and tells him later he'll be like "I didn't remember what colour you picked for me" - he doesn't wanna take on the responsibility in that moment
2026-02-10 00:32:42
3859
Stacey :
We realize “you can choose“ is manipulation to avoid doing anything at all, packaged as some kind of favor. It’s how they keep us doing 100% of everything.
2026-02-09 16:45:11
7267
To see more videos from user @couplestherapyshowtime, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
