@beastobsessed: The Danger Of Ignoring Bright Red Flags In Your Marriage New York Times bestselling author Belle Burden joins Joanna Coles to discuss her surprising divorce and the challenges that followed as she navigated financial independence after years of trusting her husband with money. ⁠Click the link in bio to watch the full interview and subscribe so you don’t miss new episodes of Obsessed: The Podcast every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday!⁠ #divorce #redflags #financialfreedom #marriageadvice #nytbestseller #financialindependence #divorcetok

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mzwsadk
user530964091778 :
That prenup was a red flag.
2026-04-01 03:00:20
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schweppe
W A J J S A :
A man with a prenup is just a child who knows he’s marrying the wrong person.
2026-02-26 18:03:35
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raye.n111
raye.n111 :
You trusted , we are supposed to trust our partner
2026-02-15 14:47:55
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heyjude1954
heyjude195430 :
This happens so much. Not only in divorce, but when a husband dies unexpectedly and the wife is left financially clueless. No access to accounts, no way to pay bills, etc. Don’t fall into that “being taken care of” mindset. It’s a rude awakening when one realizes they were indeed NOT “being taken care of.”
2026-02-26 14:09:18
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user9232097977442
NANCY KAYE :
“Till death do us part.” And that is the traditional mindset of most marriages. You were born & raised to never question your husband. After all, you’re “safe” now & don’t have to worry that he might not have the same values/morals as yours. Honestly, I believe that most men are incapable of having Womens’ standards. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t consider marriage. It means being 100% aware of your contributions, desires, & looking after yourself. Belle didn’t do anything wrong. She TRUSTED but this trust wasn’t warranted. Hopefully her daughter & all other women will enter into any relationship with a stronger sense of self & self-worth.
2026-02-18 17:11:52
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bestbudscharlieandleo
CharlieLeo :
Literally same situation. I trusted as I thought we were supposed to trust our partners. Financial abuse and infidelity isn’t talked about enough. It is so traumatic. Thank you for sharing
2026-02-22 14:31:17
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dp5446
BlondeFain :
I love the book, but this little segment does not even begin to capture. The abdication of finance were responsibility combined with the level of his deceit…
2026-02-17 17:00:37
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megtornado
Meg_colorado :
Same! I trusted my ex. I trusted he was making good financial choices and was being honest. He was not!
2026-02-21 20:04:43
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kat_land
kat_land :
Being financially aware saved my life against an abusive ex. I could get out and rebuild. Loved the book! 📕
2026-03-12 22:54:23
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sun.ulo
sun.ulo :
When you decide to “turn your brain off “ you give them the power to turn the lights off in your life.
2026-02-27 19:25:21
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allisonstratton3
Allison Stratton :
Excellent interview. Belle is America’s newest literary star.
2026-02-22 04:53:57
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crimestopper73728822
crimestopper73728822 :
In a traditional marriage, the woman handles the finances. That’s how my grandparents did it. The man makes the money, and the woman manages it.
2026-03-03 04:00:26
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margodarling
M :
This book is a must-read
2026-02-23 19:22:36
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red31128
Red3112 :
A book everyone should read!!
2026-04-01 02:28:45
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ansm123
ANSM123 :
Trusted mine completely and he did the same…
2026-04-30 13:44:26
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nonna0238
nonna0238 :
It happened to me ans this is a real thing. I would probably never marry again without a financial advisor. Period
2026-02-22 11:14:01
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miajustsaying
Mia :
I did the same thing. I trusted him. Was that wrong? Apparently so. Young girls, get involved in the money/taxes/bills.
2026-02-22 21:15:07
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brooklygal
BrooklynGal :
This will help others nor to make these mistakes. Brave of you to share.
2026-02-13 02:03:53
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kylebogie
Kyle :
That was the one advice my mother gave me that if my husband died or are we divorced that I would have a back up plan of how to support myself and it did happen to me and I did the back up plan🤗
2026-04-01 22:12:25
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samslayzlife
Samslayzlife :
This is why I will always have my own bank account.
2026-04-06 06:00:24
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conclairemom26
Totally Tracy :
This was me yelling at you during the audiobook saying “no please don’t use all of your trust he’s evil!”
2026-02-22 20:19:53
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dancingn10
dancingn10 :
Thank you for sharing ..am sure this is not easy .. May you find your own success and may you be blessed
2026-04-02 03:47:53
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lesley.vidler
lesley.vidler :
This was me ,believed in him 100 per cent and then boom gone and have had to learn hoe to manage the money and do it myself. feel proud that l now can and will never ever give up my independence again x
2026-04-05 07:00:29
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cecilledavies
Cecille Davies :
its good to talk about it. part of healing. but what goes around, comes around.
2026-04-06 11:32:07
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hollyholderman0
fosterdoglover :
#doritkemsley 😳
2026-02-22 18:42:22
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