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Natalie Matise :
You are the best big sister I never had! You’ve completely helped me adjust my mindset on things that just aren’t a big deal !!!
2026-02-10 15:15:23
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ffaitthhhhh :
But like…how? 😅 I need a large nursing pillow for the first couple months. And both hands for the first couple weeks!
2026-02-10 21:29:11
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Jamie Drucker :
My 2 under 2 plan is to channel your energy 🙏🏻
2026-02-10 15:17:52
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Em :
“Sure! I guess……sure” 🤣 just be cool!!!!!
2026-02-10 17:15:54
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goldenlawyersarah :
Needed this!! Need you to do more videos on the over stimulation mindset shift 🩷
2026-02-10 15:21:56
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Brianne :
Thank you for not selling us a solution 🙏🏼
2026-02-11 00:36:54
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Hallie Stories :
I love this because it takes the pressure of the whole situation. I also feel like this mindset also works really well if you’re bottle/formula feeding, too.
2026-02-10 15:15:27
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Tay Daigh :
I did this and I wonder if it is why my son rarely showed jealousy toward his sibling. It may just be his personality but I think this helped.
2026-02-10 16:39:02
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DEVIN :
10 days into nursing a newborn with a 16 month old at home… it’s WAY more overstimulating to have the toddler spazzing out bc I “not right now” than it is to include them. She comes over and says hi, then goes and gets a book or toy… comes back… it’s so much less stressful to just be cool😅
2026-02-10 19:30:49
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KAHLI H. | SAHM :
Obsessed with you Queen. Your breastfeeding video literally played on a loop in my mind minutes after I gave birth and baby wouldn’t eat. I actually heard you say “do. Not. Panic.” Love u!💙
2026-02-14 02:01:28
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a :
I fear the be cool just isn’t in me
2026-02-11 01:27:23
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Maddy :
Motherhood is a mindset 🥰 the more you tell yourself the children are a burden the more they will be a burden
2026-02-10 16:47:46
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C. :
I nursed newborn twins and allowed my 3 year old to climb all over me lmao
2026-02-10 21:48:33
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Tayler Wilson :
Crying in my car because I give birth tomorrow and have a 17 month old. Thank you for this 🥰
2026-02-10 16:31:44
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Lauren :
Love this! That’s what I’ve been doing but so validating to hear it from someone else. Although he has been trashing the house dumping bins trying to find toys to bring to me on the couch but it’s okay, we’re okay
2026-02-10 19:16:12
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Hadley :
People are so resistant to changing their mindset!
2026-02-10 14:57:05
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rebeccaisme511 :
ugh I wish I didn't get so overstimulated so quickly, I start out good but then she's just on my hair or in the babies face
2026-02-10 18:38:24
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lexy27marie :
This made me feel very encouraged ❤️
2026-02-11 00:53:46
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Lauren Ewing :
Me not even pregnant w my second yet, sitting here and taking NOTES
2026-02-10 20:41:40
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Em :
Yes. Don’t worry about catching the letdown or leaking all over your shirt or keeping the toddler away. Make it a cozy time for your little family as long and the older baby is being safe and considerate! They learn so much from this.
2026-02-10 16:26:51
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Meg Shafer :
Your mind set has completely changed my outlook with my 2 kids. I just had my second and I’ve learned to be cool and relax with everything. My toddler is climbing on me while I’m feeding the baby that’s a-okay
2026-02-10 18:53:22
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user8240649014480 :
I try this and it does work most the time. But also feel so bad when she says “just set her down and come play” 😂
2026-02-10 17:56:36
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kristinshumate :
Did your babies nurse in tandem at any point? My current 2.5 year old regressed with nursing after we stopped in February since my milk dried up. He started up again in May when baby was born.
2026-06-25 16:34:52
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Alee Murray :
Please explain how you get your kids to nap for 3 hours…. I can’t even get a 30 min nap.
2026-03-17 22:15:17
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eberns1 :
My worry (pregnant withy second) is that I won’t have enough room on my lap. My 22 month old is the size of a 3 year old and I am bigger chested and it was hard enough to position for nursing with just my first born.
2026-02-11 07:33:13
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