Dr. Marwa Assar
Region: US
Tuesday 10 February 2026 17:17:27 GMT
442392
46968
663
9504
Music
Download
Comments
๐ทNourish & Wellness ๐ฟ :
So the golden question is how to remain good without being taken for granted?
2026-02-11 08:55:59
632
Mayyar_Styles :
I truly hope Allah sees my good intentions.
2026-02-10 19:55:16
293
๐ง๐ฉ ๐ :
i think there needs to be more nuance on this topic. if you're being abused, it's detrimental to keep giving without protecting yourself or other victims. that doesn't mean you stop being good to everyone. but some people are abusive enough to exploit your kindness until you are depleted of any life at all, let alone goodness. it's harmful to tell people in those situations to keep giving blindly, with no wisdom
2026-02-10 21:50:39
166
mahmoudmatar20 :
I agree with everything that's being said here however, I will draw the boundary and draw the line that it does not mean that someone else has the license to treat me like a doormat. Because I am kind, and because I am generous, does not mean that I am to be abused, unappreciated and taking advantage of mentally, emotionally, physically, or financially. you are not losing your generosity you are not losing your kindness by pulling back your energy and protecting yourself from being hurt. There is a saying: fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. What that means is if you think you could get away with something by taking advantage of me and I never pick up on it then you should be ashamed of yourself. But if I already know that that's the kind of person you are from previous experience and I give you another chance and you do it again - then I need to be ashamed of myself for even giving you another chance in the first place. This is why women should never trust men who allow access to themselves to other women. This is why a woman should never trust a cheating man ever that he's "changed"... This is also why women need to learn the pattern and behavior of a narcissist. These people do not deserve second chances or forgiveness of any kind. These are mentally and emotionally damaged people that cannot be healed. Modern medicine/psychology has proven this. If you are involved or you're married to a narcissist get out and don't look back & cut off all ties.
2026-02-11 22:58:10
10
Starlight :
The worst thing in tgis world is to have a kind heart, and see yourself be killed a million times over
2026-02-11 00:42:04
80
๐ง๐พโโ๏ธMuna๐ง๐ฝ :
I think withholding your kindness and setting boundaries to who gets to have access to that kindness isnโt being ungrateful to God/Allah for giving you that gift. It just means youโre protecting yourself and being smart about it because not everyone deserves goodness.
2026-02-12 20:38:29
16
MsTeacherFashionista :
So how do you keep being kind and don't get hurt. I am so emotionally tired.
2026-02-11 19:33:50
5
chosenfromgod :
Never stop being a good person ๐ฅฐ
2026-02-11 08:09:27
43
OG Habibti :
๐ฅนoh this made me cry I defo needed to hear this as Muslim as shaytaan whispers ๐ฅน๐คฒ๐ปas sometimes I have family affears but this made me wake up thank you sister we are only here to please Allah
2026-02-11 08:17:46
15
Turtlecalmuk :
We do t do that prophet Muhammad saw was the kindest senstive and generous I at 50 will continue to be like that .being kind and my character my heart is why Allah choose me to be Muslim and opened my heart to become Muslim at 19 .He saw in me something I did not see myself and itโs important to keep that.i kniw in London uk itโs so hard to continue to be kind as a Londoner myself I see it .i rember the kind Arab sisters c and brothers who helped me when I became Muslim my family did owned me and I became homeless they bc were c so kind I changed my life and they bc were the ones who were their for me they cd were my family.And a few Irish sisters always welcomed me and comes for me and the Algerian sisters who prayed with me during those Ramadan nights and gave me sweet tea and cake .Tgey ate my sisters I will be with them in paradise.Tgey were older then me I never met sisters like that my age .
2026-02-10 21:08:29
7
Erika Noor :
Going through an absolutely evil divorce right now where he is trying to destroy me, I needed to hear this AlHamdullah
2026-02-11 15:02:04
18
Rhoda Hussโฆ. :
Giving money is easy but giving your heart to people who doesnโt deserve it is hard. We should normalise and encourage good people to have boundaries so they donโt get hurt & continue to do good
2026-02-12 15:03:58
14
Thalia Web & Co. :
I think if you are naturally kind, even if you try to stop you just can't.
2026-02-14 11:14:51
7
AzeeMubarak :
One thing life has taught me is that we shouldnโt stop being kind - we should just stop being kind to people who take advantage of it. Be kind and helpful to everyone the first time, and let the way they treat you decide if they deserve a second.
2026-02-11 01:24:54
43
A S :
I will still show my gifts, just not to the person who hurt me ๐
2026-02-26 01:01:07
12
Amina Khan :
Balance in alll things you donโt have to keep doing what you do if it hurts but you donโt have to stop it all together either.
2026-02-10 20:13:44
20
Fahmeedah Cajee :
PEOPLE MAKE U A BAD PERSON MAY ALLAH KEEP AS GOOD PEOPLE
2026-02-11 04:50:17
9
Halima UK๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ป๐จ๐ณ๐ฌ :
Alhamdulilah ๐คฒ๐พ ๐
2026-02-10 21:49:19
14
simply_ragheemah :
I feel like this message was meant for me to listen to it ๐ฅบโค๏ธ
2026-02-14 20:15:10
3
kenyattacourtney2 :
alhamduilah ๐น
2026-03-16 14:02:06
2
Marijana Peroviฤ :
noo I am gifted by God
2026-02-27 16:45:21
2
Merlie :
Thank you sister I needed to hear this
2026-03-25 18:17:42
2
Azwa Yong :
I stop giving kindness to those who take it for granted. I redirect the kindness for those who need it.
2026-02-15 07:17:56
3
Ivy & Sophia's mom :
The best gift from Allah is my kind,generous,caring heart and I will never change no matter how many ppl hurt me.
2026-03-14 10:33:42
3
MuneebF45 :
shukraan for this needed to hear this ๐
2026-02-12 20:13:43
2
To see more videos from user @drmarwaassar, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
