@agoldenway: #traumabond #traumabondrecovery #nervoussystemhealing #nervoussystem #psychology Trauma bonds don’t break with judgment, shame, or “just block them” advice. They break when you understand what’s happening in your brain and body. If you’ve ever wondered why you know someone is bad for you but still miss them, crave them, or relapse emotionally — this is why. Healing isn’t weakness. It’s biology plus support.
i just went back to my trauma bond after 1yr no contact and while i am so glad to have him back i feel like I'm failing myself
2026-02-14 11:46:07
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Genevieve Rose :
Day 16 no contact.. feeling like complete withdrawals
2026-02-11 04:15:24
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Mary Catherine :
I missed my ex husband for years. I missed the “passion” which looking back was just toxicity
2026-02-10 18:06:35
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brebre12150 :
Thank you! I feel nobody understands the pain and fight im going through
2026-02-11 17:09:19
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Chris Bodin :
im so fucking glad im not alone
2026-02-13 10:45:53
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Debi :
I’m trying so hard I’m just broken
2026-02-15 05:12:28
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Angela Tuck :
I never understood addiction, don’t get me wrong I could empathize with it but I didn’t get it. You know it’s bad for you just don’t do it. I finally understood it after having a trauma bond. That shit will change you.
2026-02-20 04:28:57
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Hannah Mae :
I don’t even miss him. I just miss the false security he gave me. Might have been fake but at least I didn’t feel this way.
2026-03-27 15:20:18
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Tina Harding :
Fed up of ppl saying why did u stay so long and u know how to pick them. Like it’s all my fault
2026-02-10 18:16:34
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Mizz Angie :
THANK YOU.. THIS IS WHY I STOPPED TALKING TO PEOPLE ABOUT MY SITUATION.. NOBODY UNDERSTANDS..
2026-02-28 20:36:26
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Dannalyn :
Almost 2 months no contact. Under 3 years of back n forth. Really tough week
2026-02-11 21:37:25
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Luna 🩷 :
This is me right now. It’s absolutely horrible!! I just want it to stop 🛑 I don’t want to feel the pain anymore.
2026-03-15 02:10:04
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BelieveinFaith&Love :
mentally drained. exhausted.
2026-03-07 21:17:55
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itsybitsypixie666 :
It’s been 6 months and I think about / miss him MORE each day .. it’s never going to end
2026-03-24 09:42:13
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turtleh_ :
No contact since 11/18, from me. This is gonna take life.
2026-02-13 04:10:01
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sandydelcambre461 :
So true finally someone understands
2026-02-10 20:02:46
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Lina :
I stopped explaining this to people because it drained me..
2026-04-02 03:13:02
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Britney Abrahams :
once you start realising how they only use you you start moving away
2026-02-10 22:21:10
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maeve_051 :
I tried cutting him off multiple times but it didn’t work
2026-02-10 19:05:23
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Sandy J. Cullins :
This explains EVERY 👏🏽 DAMN 👏🏽 THING 👏🏽 I 👏🏽 FEEL 👏🏽
2026-04-01 02:41:45
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Amber :
7 months and I'm still not ok. He text the first time the other day and I'm right back at day one, even though I didn't open or respond to it. I feel lost and broken and fight every day not to go back. I still feel like I can't live without him
2026-02-11 18:04:43
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ty_collins :
The fights and then the “I’m sorry” is a literal emotional rollercoaster that is like a high. Ur addicted to the emotional rollercoaster not the person.
2026-02-10 23:02:44
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🍑Peaches 2.0🍑 :
Absolutely the truth!! This was the hardest thing I’ve ever done!! You do not understand the addiction unless you’ve actually been through it! The withdrawals and fear when I finally cut him off totally for good is the worst feelings!! I’ve come so far in the past year and I’m so proud of myself! You can do it too and will be so relieved to have your peace and control back!
2026-02-16 18:20:55
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Lacie Jones :
9 months since the breakup and 5 months since no contact started and I’m still struggling. Just for anyone else who thinks it’s taking to long. ❤️🩹
2026-02-12 22:15:39
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🌜laire :
i wish people would understand. it’s so embarassing whenever i try to open up to others just to hear this
2026-03-21 02:18:38
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