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Wednesday 11 February 2026 02:12:43 GMT
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Breinna Wells :
I tried explaining to my mom that it’s very weird to invite me to my cousins bridal shower if I wasn’t invited to the wedding and she thought I was crazy. glad to know I’m not crazy
2026-02-11 05:12:49
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Taylor :
Grandma still wants that invite and she still wants the pictures where she can attend or not. She’s going to show it off you all her besties …. Give grandma the bragging rights!!!!
2026-02-11 18:48:30
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dreemah :
if you don't want them there, don't talk to them about the wedding, if you DO want them there and they can't make it, share as much as you want to have them feel included!
2026-02-11 09:48:28
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himchanthecat :
I want to know about my coworkers weddings even tho I’m not invited. I love planning things and big celebrations but I got none to plan for myself. So I ask and genuinely want to know. I’m not offended I’m not included in the guest list - I’m just curious about how you would love your big day so I can ask when it’s over if it was just what you dreamed of. 🥰
2026-02-11 19:56:00
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Chanel Matil Lodik :
I think it’s very normal to discuss wedding but not invite co workers.
2026-03-31 20:42:40
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FamilyroomReject :
I have like 70 co-workers. I sure as shit want to know every detail about their wedding even though I know they can’t invite the entire workplace. Know your audience.
2026-03-13 01:02:34
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Sarah :
Literally one of my friends was living in Japan and I full didn’t expect him to come FIGURED IT OUT simply because I invited him. You never know when you don’t extend the invitation
2026-02-11 13:35:01
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Mikaela 🇯🇲 :
Oh im so big on this literally its the thought that counts!! “We didnt invite you bc we knew you wouldnt come” how do you know that??
2026-03-04 00:25:12
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🌟 Christine 🌟 :
people are confused about this? 😅
2026-02-11 02:24:45
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sara_romine5 :
What if people you are not inviting keep asking you how the planning is going.
2026-02-17 02:53:56
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idk_543216789 :
My friend eloped in a microwedding that I couldn't get time off for. You bet I still got excited over every detail and showed her I had cake and champagne the day of to celebrate!
2026-02-11 21:36:57
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ScribblerQueen :
I feel like coworkers are different, coworkers would likely have to request off to attend and very few places would accommodate that, plus I think people understand that weddings are expensive and that the people paying for it would prioritize friends and family first due to cost. You can be close to your coworkers but it should be socially acceptable that they would not automatically invited.
2026-02-11 20:14:19
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REBEKAH COMPTON :
I have some friends that can’t make the wedding bc we’re getting married quickly & people have summer travel plans Man, I was thrilled when they said they could make my shower!!
2026-02-11 21:00:22
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Jen ✨ :
So would you still budget for all of these long shot invites miraculously saying yes or no? (Just curious, not wedding planning anytime soon myself)
2026-02-20 21:52:06
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swhie :
My coworkers will NOT stop asking about my wedding. Thankfully we're keeping it small but my god I tried not to talk about it.
2026-03-05 10:08:17
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Chanel Matil Lodik :
And my girls came to the bachelorette but only two were invited to the wedding and they are still my best friends
2026-03-31 20:43:12
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Siobhan 🇨🇦🇮🇪 :
So my friend is having a small wedding and can't invite our full group of friends. She has instead invited us to her bridal shower. We are all honoured to get to celebrate her and totally understand why she can't invite us to the wedding. As a 2026 bride myself I would also love to invite all my friends but I can't, I don't think that means I shouldn't get to share this huge thing with them in some way. I honestly hate this part of wedding culture and I think it just makes brides feel like crap when they would really love to include more people.
2026-02-11 14:20:36
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Hannah Kesselring :
its more about who's making the decision for them not to be there, you or them.
2026-02-13 14:05:09
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amiana :
😳😳😳
2026-02-12 20:43:17
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✨Vivion✨ :
Also not to get messy buttt: Not inviting your friends partner specifically because you don’t like them but never said anything and have no problem sitting across from them at said friends birthday dinner talking about wedding and honeymoon plans is wild especially when you keep doing this to your male friends gfs/ Fem presenting partners. It’s weird and gives off mean girl energy.
2026-02-12 09:55:56
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