@thefallenpo.et: Some mothers want control, not connection🪽Original poem by TheFallenPoet. Narcissistic mothers often say, “I’m your mom, you need to treat me with respect,” while speaking to you in ways that slowly chip at your confidence for years. Then the moment you react, set boundaries, or speak up like an adult, you’re suddenly ungrateful and disrespectful. But what they want isn’t a child with their own voice, they want supply, a built in cheerleader whose job is to keep them feeling important. So you grow up walking on eggshells, afraid to have your own opinions because everything turns into a fight. They act like they deserve a medal for doing the bare minimum: food, shelter, clothes. But you can love your parent and still admit they hurt you. You can respect motherhood and still say that was abuse. And if someone is toxic, even family, you’re allowed to create distance, even no contact if that’s what peace costs. 📕 I wrote a book Between Heaven & Earth for those untangling love from pain, learning that honoring your heart sometimes means setting boundaries with the people who raised you. It’s about emotional truth, healing, and choosing peace without guilt. Available on amazon #poetry #healing #boundaries #emotionaldepth #selfrespect
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘱𝘰𝘦𝘵
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Wednesday 11 February 2026 19:51:43 GMT
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Hussy Mine. :
No contact for 30 years. No regrets.
2026-02-13 15:00:10
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Deigh M🧸🤎 :
what about narcissistic fathers
2026-09-27 08:42:24
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Gus :
I grew up watching my narcissistic mother brag and claim responsibility for my achievements publicly and downplay or criticize them to me privately 🤗
2026-02-11 20:04:52
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Z♛ :
:/ genuinely the most draining part of my life is her
2026-02-24 17:48:16
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D. A. :
A mother will look at your bucket to see if she can pour any more into it. My mother looks into my bucket to see if I have anything else for her to take.
2026-02-22 13:35:00
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Avangeline G :
No contact😍🙌🏽❤️🩹
2026-02-12 20:44:26
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JulesImablexican :
She sent me this
2026-02-19 23:00:47
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amanda_allen85 :
I had to set strong boundaries, now all I hear is how “ everyone “ thinks I’m a terrible person
2026-02-19 01:33:23
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Munnra.books 💚 :
“Yeah? Well who stayed with you while you were in the hospital?” ….. I had cancer
2026-02-25 03:31:15
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ryan :
„i‘m your mom, you need to love me“
2026-02-15 02:29:34
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Carolina :
I went through this, I was traumatized .
2026-02-21 00:49:54
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fivestarrsap :
now they're on the phone all day with the whole rest of your family gossiping about how grown you think you are 😒😒
2026-08-13 00:02:36
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Bubbles :
Unfortunately this is my mother
2026-03-25 21:20:50
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Lisa :
mine told me several times she wished she'd never had me 🥺
2026-03-24 05:06:04
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🍒🍒 Cherry :
"I'm your mother" is the BIGGEST manipulation tactic!
2026-02-25 08:40:26
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Olga✨ :
I don't wanna be like my mom
2026-02-24 15:45:12
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Jamie L Techau :
8 years no contact and love every minute!
2026-05-06 01:56:00
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eatbacon :
no contact for almost a year. I'm still healing. I don't regret this decision.
2026-05-30 00:03:27
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lisaq840 :
I just cut her off I can’t take it anymore
2026-02-27 00:51:03
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WizzardOFGods Evolut :
Take em off the pedestal ppl. Regain control of your life. They are ppl going through their life cycles.
2026-03-07 08:32:31
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allegedlyhypothetically :
and I'm now learning that this trauma can cause BPD, issues with setting boundaries, sometimes trauma makes people empaths
2026-02-17 06:48:05
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Nana🦓🪷 :
This is a sign thank you
2026-04-20 03:17:26
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therandomlass :
No contact is the best
2026-02-18 10:37:06
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Jennifer1111🦋 :
And now we don’t talk
2026-02-17 15:41:09
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