@thefallenpo.et: Some mothers want control, not connection🪽Original poem by TheFallenPoet. Narcissistic mothers often say, “I’m your mom, you need to treat me with respect,” while speaking to you in ways that slowly chip at your confidence for years. Then the moment you react, set boundaries, or speak up like an adult, you’re suddenly ungrateful and disrespectful. But what they want isn’t a child with their own voice, they want supply, a built in cheerleader whose job is to keep them feeling important. So you grow up walking on eggshells, afraid to have your own opinions because everything turns into a fight. They act like they deserve a medal for doing the bare minimum: food, shelter, clothes. But you can love your parent and still admit they hurt you. You can respect motherhood and still say that was abuse. And if someone is toxic, even family, you’re allowed to create distance, even no contact if that’s what peace costs. 📕 I wrote a book Between Heaven & Earth for those untangling love from pain, learning that honoring your heart sometimes means setting boundaries with the people who raised you. It’s about emotional truth, healing, and choosing peace without guilt. Available on amazon #poetry #healing #boundaries #emotionaldepth #selfrespect

𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘱𝘰𝘦𝘵
𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘱𝘰𝘦𝘵
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hussy.mine
Hussy Mine. :
No contact for 30 years. No regrets.
2026-02-13 15:00:10
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splgus
Gus :
I grew up watching my narcissistic mother brag and claim responsibility for my achievements publicly and downplay or criticize them to me privately 🤗
2026-02-11 20:04:52
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u.khanxo
Z♛ :
:/ genuinely the most draining part of my life is her
2026-02-24 17:48:16
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avangelinegraves
Avangeline G :
No contact😍🙌🏽❤️‍🩹
2026-02-12 20:44:26
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d.a.365
D. A. :
A mother will look at your bucket to see if she can pour any more into it. My mother looks into my bucket to see if I have anything else for her to take.
2026-02-22 13:35:00
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amanda_lee_allen
amanda_allen85 :
I had to set strong boundaries, now all I hear is how “ everyone “ thinks I’m a terrible person
2026-02-19 01:33:23
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allegedlyhypothetical1
allegedlyhypothetically :
and I'm now learning that this trauma can cause BPD, issues with setting boundaries, sometimes trauma makes people empaths
2026-02-17 06:48:05
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_ryan.real_
ryan :
„i‘m your mom, you need to love me“
2026-02-15 02:29:34
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witts__
🍒🍒 Cherry :
"I'm your mother" is the BIGGEST manipulation tactic!
2026-02-25 08:40:26
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ha_aat_ii
Mxrkos :
I'm sure my mother is heartbroken for no contact from me but this is nothing compared to the years, and years of narcissism.
2026-02-14 17:09:29
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auntmiminsurai
Jamie L Techau :
8 years no contact and love every minute!
2026-05-06 01:56:00
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olgadaffon28
Olga✨ :
I don't wanna be like my mom
2026-02-24 15:45:12
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caroliina9090
Carolina :
I went through this, I was traumatized .
2026-02-21 00:49:54
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lisaq840
lisaq840 :
I just cut her off I can’t take it anymore
2026-02-27 00:51:03
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wizzardofgods
WizzardOFGods Evolut :
Take em off the pedestal ppl. Regain control of your life. They are ppl going through their life cycles.
2026-03-07 08:32:31
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liseylou1303
Lisa :
mine told me several times she wished she'd never had me 🥺
2026-03-24 05:06:04
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therandomlass
therandomlass :
No contact is the best
2026-02-18 10:37:06
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natinnylgud
Bubbles :
Unfortunately this is my mother
2026-03-25 21:20:50
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mamajenn1111
Jennifer1111🦋 :
And now we don’t talk
2026-02-17 15:41:09
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jeasillybaby
JeasillyBaby :
my mom throws it in my face that she raised me for 21 years, and that she deserves to take my money. not how it works.
2026-02-25 00:55:20
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rvsarianne
Rvs Arianne :
I spent her last 48 hours on earth with her so she wouldn't feel lonely in 2022. I never missed her one second, only the tought of a mother... Blood doesn't make you family, blood makes you related. Love, trust and loyalty... that's what makes you family
2026-02-16 13:36:00
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dannnnn_b
Daniel 🐲🪽 :
Wishing strenght on the healing path to those who were raised by adults who's emotional intelligence is that of a child
2026-02-13 09:48:17
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starnightartmusic
🎇🎆🌌Star Night🌌🎆🎇 :
My parents. That is why Im broken because they hated me and never loved me unconditionally.
2026-02-24 00:10:08
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munn.ra
Munnra.books 💚 :
“Yeah? Well who stayed with you while you were in the hospital?” ….. I had cancer
2026-02-25 03:31:15
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