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𝗅𝖺𝗅𝖺 :
I think when someone vents to you it’s really important to ask whay they want. Do you just want me to listen or do you want advice? It helps because the person venting gets the support that they need/want and it takes the helpers brain out of panick mode “I don’t know what to say” goes away because you now know they want advice, or they just want you to validate their situation. Personally, 9 of ten times I look for validation when I vent so someone, but I’ve also been in the position of helping someone who may want advice. So it’s important to help how THEY want you to help, rather than how you typically seek help.
2026-02-11 21:36:06
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𝕯𝖆y :
I don’t think that anyone can ever know what another person feels, it is impossible for anyone to know how you feel or what you’re going through as everyone deals and feels differently. People might not always understand but you deserve to reach out to someone and you deserve there respect. You are amazing no matter what and you will never be a burden to anyone who truly cares💕
2026-02-11 20:43:44
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Wood :
I mean it every time. check DMS for a phone number if you ever need it.
2026-02-19 20:55:38
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Mansu :
You’re not a burden. Yes I can relate I had a situation where I couldn’t sleep more than maybe 4 hours a week for two yearsand when I talked to people they all only really had shock as a reaction. Thankfully it’s better now after I had brain surgery for the core issue. Thankfully God was always there and I hope and pray you get through this. Much love.
2026-03-14 11:36:20
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redneckofrohan :
sometimes just being able to verbally release the congestion of the mind is all that is needed to relieve the pressure our thoughts have created.
2026-02-13 14:26:42
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Hidden Key 🗝️ :
This is why I don’t really talk about my stuff either, feels like a burden. Not sure what I want or need out of a conversation, however I am always here for people whe the need it, as a friend and a guide, at least I have tarot and astrology on my side to help haha
2026-02-13 16:39:33
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Joaquin :
it's not my intention to call you out but in a sense this video shows you that talking to someone might help even if you say no because talking to someone doesn't mean that they have to understand you but that you get to the conclusion yourself kinda like you did here and you can say something like nono I'm just talking but you are talking so the messenge gets to someone so it could help if you find a person that would listen the way you need
2026-02-14 09:40:38
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trashpanda9865🥓 :
Just hit me up i am here to listen anytime and if i can help i will
2026-03-20 12:52:51
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UnfadingSilence ✔︎ :
I sent you a message ✌
2026-02-13 20:11:28
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Łųƙɛ🇻🇦† :
praying it gets better for you, I believe in you
2026-02-11 23:42:39
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ThatDude :
U want to share, they try to sympathize or solve it. Hope this helps some of us don’t get stressed from others problems ❤️
2026-02-14 10:14:41
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Mr.Zizou :
I did this too I say I will be a good listener but i don't, i feel bad about myself 😔
2026-02-14 12:47:24
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Tobias Reiper :
you are absolutely amazing...we all fall we all stumble we all have troubles.....you are only human and I'm proud of you for keeping on and fighting to keep moving
2026-04-01 21:20:39
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Ramon :
I can’t help you, just know that you have very beautiful eyes.
2026-02-20 23:58:18
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(๑˙ー˙๑) :
That's why there's therapy.. That listen.. And help! And always know what to say.. Or if u're brok like me... Talk to chatgpt!
2026-02-14 20:16:35
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₵ⱠØVɆ₦ ⱠɆØ ₵₳₴Ⱨ :
all my advice would be links to songs
2026-02-12 15:10:22
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Kassantoura Simon :
To be fair sometimes talking to a stranger that isn’t fully there is a easier way to get through a thought or issue but it is difficult no matter what
2026-02-15 19:30:11
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ChristopherTheAlcoholic :
Here for everyone 🥺🥺🥺
2026-02-11 20:46:28
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Ace Madison :
unfortunately I understand that feeling all too well. that's why I became a mental health first aider and trained in counselling so nobody ever has to feel the way I did.
2026-02-12 18:19:58
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Perceval :
I wanna restore the faith of those people that really mean that, count on me if you need to talk
2026-02-12 15:16:23
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Senkimone :
A lot of people offer an ear or shoulder without being ready to handle the possibility of something intense being the topic. You in no way shape or form are a burden for someone else not being ready. It’s understandable to feel that way I feel similar a lot but eventually you’ll find someone that genuinely wants to listen and help and it makes all the difference.
2026-03-04 08:06:49
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BryanB :
Well if they cared about you I don’t think it’s a burden maybe look at it as a load of your shoulders.
2026-02-12 20:20:58
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Omnomnom :
I feel these same things and I don't know what to do about it.
2026-02-12 17:43:47
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Pipitoo :
ai helps
2026-02-12 15:49:37
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Pull :
Keep u in my prayers misses ma’am🙏
2026-02-11 20:53:56
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