@_olivialesurfwray: Are you currently with an avoidant or dating an avoidant & everytime there is emotional closeness they withdraw? This can be one of the most confusing tendencies when it comes to the avoidant attachment style and very often leaves us feeling rejected or confused As a relationship coach and therapist let me explain why this happens and why it’s not you 🫶🏼 #heartbreak #relationshipadvice #nocontact #attachmenttheory #dismissiveavoidant

Olivia LW | Relationship coach
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iimaru01
iiMaRu :
We had one month with closeness, emotional openness and consistency then she disappeared, it’s been 9 days now. She didn’t do it the past 8 months, which also had closeness and emotional openness. The longest silence period before this was 7 days as she was dealing with migranes, anxiety and life. She doesn’t really follow what’s known about avoidants. Should I reach out soon? I feel like the more time passes the less likely it is for things to be fixed. I really do love her and want a future with her
2026-03-02 13:17:11
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sweavsssss
Sweavssss :
Got blocked by her for two months. She then returned. Just to “check in”. Told me she was in a better place after not feeling good. I remembered something important to her which she loved. Only to then be blocked. I made the mistake of reaching out elsewhere only to be blocked there too. She apparently had a really good childhood though and has an expectation that people should be able to pick up on her moods like her mum can.
2026-03-24 06:50:43
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melindanilsen
Melinda🤍𖣂 🇮🇶🇧🇻 :
he blocked me everywhere without any explanation after we met and everything was perfect, said he doesnt talk to any other girls and kissed me and even slept together. talked for hours. called me so pretty. made plans seeing each other again soon, then he randomly ghosted me for 12 days and blocked me ?
2026-02-13 01:59:31
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delladella540
Della :
Dissapearing for a month is normal? And be back like nothing happened… feel like in a relationship but without compromise….omg im getting crazy
2026-02-11 22:26:24
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roby1kenobie
1-Ken-obie :
what is classed as a secure message?
2026-02-13 00:54:51
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androgynous39
Shell43! :
Can u make this so I can download as it will really help my friend who is not on TikTok please
2026-02-26 05:52:01
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chloelunamayo
chloelunamayo :
Do secure men come back?
2026-02-18 00:44:20
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