xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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wavy.gravy420 :
my girlfriend broke up with me a week ago and these videos have helped a lot because for the first few days I was a mess and probably overwhelmed her a lot. but these have been helping a lot. I'm really afraid to lose her though and I'm unsure if we'll ever get back together. especially because we're both really young and we were only dating not married or anything like that. idk part of me wants to try and get her back but these videos have helped me keep myself in check, give her space, let her be and just work on myself. really hope we get back together though.
2026-03-23 01:46:03
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GenXDaddy :
So you were the avoidant then he became the avoidant?
2026-02-12 02:46:50
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Dustin Troy :
We already went through the divorce. It’s been really hard on me
2026-03-31 19:16:34
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Almost Famous Beauty :
And what did you do to work on yourself
2026-02-13 01:09:28
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cdobson066 :
I'd like to first off say thank you for these videos. I also got to a detachment stage with my burnt out partner. When her nervous system regulated enough we reconnected. The issue now is because of the identifying and the communication we are on a positive high note and are trying to find the balance of continued space for individual growth, and the urge to rush back in to things full-time. Not only have I done massive amount of work on myself, your videos have helped me to see her side and has opened up a lot of empathy and understanding from what she has and still is going through. once again, thank you.
2026-04-06 11:03:19
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dogleg :
Could you share the coach he used?
2026-06-07 04:36:31
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Bake :
I am going through this. 4 months separated and I fried her nervous system and I fried mine also. When she moved out we both detached for 30 days of no contact. We are both doing work on our own. This strikes home very well
2026-02-12 02:33:26
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Sarah :
I needed this, thank you for sharing 🥹❤️
2026-02-12 05:37:35
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Aj Farra :
thats 100% games.
2026-02-19 01:07:17
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Kelly Allen596 :
I need this thank you how long was it till you talked about getting back together please
2026-02-14 12:39:26
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Pash :
Thank you for sharing!
2026-02-13 13:45:40
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Blox Golf 958 :
How long was the separation until you guys fixed it?
2026-02-12 03:39:44
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AaronImler :
So happy it is working out for you! I hope and believe it will work out that way for my wife and I. Our situations are quite similar. Thank you for sharing.
2026-02-12 18:17:43
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Unclebuckets :
Wow rings so true. How long was your journey?
2026-02-12 03:53:39
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Panda :
In Jesus Name I Pray Amen! 🙏
2026-02-14 15:51:38
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lchil02 :
You talk about a coach? What kind and where can I find one
2026-04-25 17:10:04
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tmclark199 :
@meglandyn 🙏🙏🙏
2026-02-12 21:50:05
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caedeepooley :
I feel like the smother phase fizzles out and they revert back to the old patterns… ugh I wish my past looked like this
2026-02-12 03:57:46
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t_na222 :
I want my husband to stop smothering me he may eventually but I don't see him working on himself. he says "I've been this.way for 60 years. this is how I was when you married me why do I need to change"
2026-02-15 01:34:50
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Kari :
How??
2026-02-27 17:38:10
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briankennedy502 :
I hope it works for my marraige 🤞🏻 trying my best to let go of anxiety and doing my best with no contact. haven't seen much change in the last 3 weeks though.
2026-02-28 17:29:27
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Marius :
Well it's the same in my marriage. In begin I was pushing but now it's much better. Trying to make it alone
2026-03-09 16:21:50
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MarrSav :
I kinda feel like I’m the way your husband is. I need to work on my own individuality. She’s moving out!!
2026-02-12 18:10:50
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vlindertjeex :
When did you feel that shift of energy?
2026-04-12 15:40:32
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ayan :
yeah but how can i show her that energy if we're not talking 😭
2026-04-28 21:37:21
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