@therealniccoy: Healing is a hallway of unopened doors. Behind one: your softness. Behind another: your fire. Behind another: the version of you who no longer tolerates what you used to. The tension isn’t that they exist. It’s that they coexist. You are gentle and unmovable. Loving and done. Open and boundaried. Most people don’t avoid healing because it hurts. They avoid it because it dismantles the identity that once kept them safe. Wholeness feels like loss before it feels like freedom. #healing #wisdom #selflove #nervoussystemregulation #letsgetreal
Also… you’ll feel like you will never fall in love again
2026-02-12 20:50:02
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your.mom.says.hallo 🇿🇦 :
I'm becoming a plot twist 🤣
2026-02-13 12:37:19
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Only Shenanigans :
the angry one was quite the surprise
2026-02-12 23:28:49
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LeadershipProgression :
I’m finding this phase DIFFICULT
2026-03-01 12:01:07
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𝓐𝓵𝓮𝓴𝓼𝓪𝓷𝓭𝓻𝓪 :
This made me realize im further along than i thought i was. Thank you
2026-02-12 22:38:10
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sam :
is it normal when you start healing all your feelings explode like you feel deep sadness and be so angry and so emotional at the same time is this normal?
2026-02-13 18:54:03
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LeTish-Tish :
integration became easier for me when i saw a post that said (something along the lines of) : all my past versions became the soil in which i now flourish 🖤
2026-02-12 20:05:52
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Abbie Richards :
not my therapist sending this to me
2026-02-28 00:32:53
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Kiersten | Purpose & Grief :
Oooo I love this. “Contradiction feels unsafe” 🫰 this is so true. Especially with grief and trying to start that healing process.
2026-02-13 19:23:13
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Natasha Z :
Every time i stand up for myself, i feel like a villan, even tho i’m very happy i’mm doing it, but something in the back tells me, ppl will not like that 😅🥲, i still have a long way to go
2026-02-13 10:49:07
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Marie :
Therapy + free ASMR hihihi
2026-02-13 15:57:19
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Jesse :
your changing lives !! keep going 💯❤️🙏❤️
2026-03-18 22:33:57
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. :
Thats what I am going through right now 😭 I grieve my old self, and I am angry at her 😭 but I kinda like my new self
2026-02-13 07:11:07
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Mix.motion :
This is my favorite TikTok account from now on ❤️
2026-03-01 12:09:02
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Crisisdienst :
True that!! It's bipolar season
2026-03-03 07:14:31
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Arian Lumière :
Girl, your timing is perfect 💜
2026-02-14 12:37:28
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zucchini is fairly versatile :
and let me tell you, perimenopause really brought them all out 😅
2026-02-12 15:43:00
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Liz :
I got scared of who I was becoming 😭
2026-02-13 13:56:07
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Like Aena✨ :
"you are not becoming someone else ... you're becoming whole"💯
2026-03-29 18:59:21
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Shine :
I love this! So well explained ❤️🙏
2026-02-13 12:35:51
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Nikki - Zelfzorgexperte BO/CVS :
the mourning one was a surprise for me.
2026-02-13 13:47:36
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Philp_H :
what you are saying makes so much sense to me, but at the same time I don’t feel like I am healing, but as if I am tested all the time by my environment and its circumstances.
2026-02-13 09:51:13
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yourbuzzieisfuzzie :
Feeling like my new online friend that sees me, but you scare me a little.
2026-03-02 01:03:12
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・❥・𝓚𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪 𝓜𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓮 ・❥・ :
Im meeting the angry one :( Ive never wver met her. First time at 30.
2026-02-13 21:17:12
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Hanna-Ruth :
It’s so hard to find the balance when to draw your boundaries when you lived your whole life as a people pleaser
2026-02-13 14:42:43
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